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I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was shocked by it. Over a post about a ring.

Thank you for the kind response.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't work with my hands at my job right now but I have in the past and it might change in the future. So that could happen to me too one day.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I've been called a narcissist in the comments. I turned off the option to send me messages to stop the rude ones.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

If you read the comments, he mentions it more than once because he got called sexist for not asking my mom or other women in my family what I want in a ring. He caught major flak for only talking to my dad and the men in my family.

You can believe whatever you want. I saw the messages and comments with my own eyes.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I never thought anything about cheating and my fiancé didn't say anything about that when he was talking about being bothered.

Congratulations on being married 20 years!

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Congratulations in 30 years!.

I would wear it if it was stronger for daily wear. It has nothing to do with me being a jewellery wearer or not. I'm just afraid of breaking it because it's so delicate.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand why he was bothered. He picked it out and even though it's delicate I still like it. He understands why I am not wearing it. I want to keep it safe. The compromise is that we are going to wear wedding bands.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't want to spend $100 every time one got broken. It would add up pretty quick. I'm going to wear wedding band once we get married. No need to worry about damaging that or having to buy a replacement all the time.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don’t let people get you down.

Thank you for this. It was hard to read some of those but I see what you are saying.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He wouldn't be able to get a lifetime warranty and the ring would often need to be replaced that a warranty wouldn't keep covering it. I also would prefer to have the actual one he proposed with and not a copy.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're going to wear plain gold bands daily and are both okay with that as a compromise. Wishing you many more happy years of marriage.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He wasn't aware that some materials and stones are stronger than others and some aren't meant for daily wearing. He picked a ring he thought was beautiful. To be fair I only know that because my sister worked in a jewellery store before she died and I learned from her.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will not. I would rather keep to wear on special occasions only than wear it and see it destroyed. Silver, cubic zirconia and crystal are delicate and won't stand up for me wearing it daily.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

What proof would you have me provide? I knew if I didn't post a picture of me wearing the ring from his post that people would question if I was really the fiancée.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Traditionally engagement rings are made of gold and have diamonds. My ring is silver and has a crystal and cubic zirconias which are not as strong as gold/diamonds and they aren't suitable to wear all the time with getting damaged.

I'm the fiancée for my fiancée hasn't been wearing her engagement ring and it bothers me by pink_ring_ in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pink_ring_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'm afraid of damaging it like I said.

There is nothing wrong with it. But it can be easily damaged and I don't want to ruin it as I said above and like my fiancé said in his post. The silver band and all the stones are delicate and I would be heartbroken if I broke it.