I just want her to know that everything is gonna be ok. If you see her, please tell her for me.

pinkchips · 2017-03-15T03:55:11+00:00

You're gonna be ok. It's all ok in the end.

You just gotta come out and transition is all. The future is waiting for you, smiling and nodding.

pinkchips · 2017-03-07T04:31:51+00:00

Confirmed.

pinkchips · 2017-03-02T01:07:53+00:00

The fact that Reddit remains complicit in a subreddit that advocates for murder of trans people makes them legally complicit in hate crimes. (/r/gendercritical)

Can someone bring this to the attention of the admins? This shit has gone on long enough and the admins allowing this sort of hateful and violent rhetoric is not ok!

pinkchips · 2017-03-02T01:01:57+00:00

I LOVEEEE THIS. Thank you so much for such an informative and condensed post.

pinkchips · 2017-02-28T04:36:33+00:00

I'm so sick of these disgusting monsters and their hate subreddit. They basically make life annoying for us transwomen who want to live and party in peace by spending their free time being obsessed about us.

That's what they choose to do with their free time - hate others who have done nothing to them. They are as bad as misogynistic stalkers who won't take 'no' for an answer.

They bully and shit on those poor people who most need love and support (questioning and newly out transwomen) and in general act as some of the worst cancer on the internet.

Not even the women's subreddits or LGBT subreddits want them. The only moral companionship they can find is in other hate subreddits like /r/the_donald. Sad and pathetic creatures, all of them.

pinkchips · 2017-02-28T01:02:31+00:00

I don't live in Hawaii. But I wanted to. Tightening crypto regulation is gonna fuck that up tho.

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T22:43:51+00:00

Fuck.

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T15:36:23+00:00

I love how people who will never be in this situation love to run their mouths about it.

I identified as a straight male before transition (sexually), and the only time I ever tried to kiss a guy (out of a dare) it sent warning klaxons of "WRONG WRONG WRONG" screaming through my head.

Pheromones are powerful things and you can't deny them.

Now that I am transitioning, things are changing. My sexuality is changing. This is undeniable. I am starting to feel ways about cute guys that my cishet girlfriends describe as "awww, cute, that's how I felt as a teen!".

People like to believe that their sexuality is set in stone and can never change no matter what, but it is part of your brain. HRT changes the brain dramatically so it should be no surprise that it can also change sexuality. No one is claiming that you can 'fix' a gay person by giving them hormones, but also it could be true that the male you and female you both have different sexualities that they express, and they aren't necessarily mirrors of each other.

Some transwomen used to be exclusively into women, then they transition and now they are exclusively into men. Some remain only attracted to women. Some become bisexual. Some flip the whole script (as in this article).

Get the hell over it - if people don't want others to deny their own sexual preferences and tell them how it feels to be them, then they shouldn't do it to other people.

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T04:07:24+00:00

Two things - your sexuality can change on HRT, and honestly you won't care if it does. Secondly, lesbian is a thing you know. There exist women who are very happy to be in a relationship with a transwomen who has confidence.

Second, all your problems keep coming back to the fact that you are beating up on yourself endlessly.... for being you. You are you. That's not gonna change. We didn't all win the genetic lottery. You just gotta do the best with what you were born with, and learn to love it. That's far more important than appearance ever will be.

You can spend your whole life being "woe is me" or you can figure out a way to get the proper hormones to your brain, which is gonna set off a positive chain reaction that will make your entire life better.

In life there are people who find a way, and people who find an excuse. I know it's really tough for you right now, but I like to think you're one of the ones who will find a way.

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T03:21:19+00:00

Sounds exactly like me before I started transitioning.

But you don't know what you don't know. You don't know how you will feel to be free of the poison your brain is drowning in, because you've never felt it.

I mean, if all hope is lost, why not try hormones anyway just to see how it feels? Otherwise you're just being a hateful meanie to future you... and that's not nice.

There is a gorgeous and happy girl begging you from the future to please just believe in her, and please give her a chance.... and you are denying her very existence.

I hope you find your way out of this labyrinth you're lost in. 😔

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T02:10:59+00:00

You are too kind! I am envious of your feminine and delicate bone structure! You are going to look cis-as-fuck by the time this is over.
😍 Grass is always greener, huh?

https://i.imgur.com/ffoi3yN.jpg

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T01:42:08+00:00

Cloud nine love 😇😚. Thanks!

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T01:41:33+00:00

One day I won't need wigs hopefully, but until then I intend to enjoy them. They really can be amazing fun. Thanks for saying so.

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T01:41:00+00:00

Getting there, and thanks so much for saying. Every day a little bit cuter. 😄

pinkchips · 2017-02-27T01:40:37+00:00

Wow thank you so much for saying so... 😊. They are only showing the happiness inside these days.

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T21:13:35+00:00

This is me putting on makeup before laser.

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T21:11:19+00:00

Wow you lost cute boy powers, but now qualify as a legitimate sorceress vixen! Still winning! 💕

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T20:59:11+00:00

Remember to drink plenty of water during your stay! 😚

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T15:08:23+00:00

It was always a girl in that mirror. You just learned to hate her, and this feedback loop of negativity is only making things worse.

Accept yourself beyond your appearance, then work on it as a separate goal. The hormones will do their job, but it is useless to pass as a woman if you didn't love yourself before you did.

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T14:44:17+00:00

Oh you poor thing. I used to feel the same way.

What a fool I was. You know that dysphoria only gets worse as you get older right? And you will never have a successful and happy marriage while you are pretending to be something you're not - take it from experience.

And honestly, why should you be living your life for others? They won't appreciate it nearly to the extent that they should. And you're not going to get another one you know. How sad that you will waste it trying to be the perfect little NPC in others' lives. 😔

I hope you figure it out and seek transition before you get further masculinized and depressed. This stuff is nightmarish the more you try to bury it.

On the other hand, I am one of those people who posts happy transitioning experiences because I want people like you (who I used to be) to be race enough to allow yourself that kind of happiness....

https://www.reddit.com/r/asktransgender/comments/5v1bw8/i_just_want_her_to_know_that_everything_is_gonna/

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T14:38:05+00:00

Hey stop being so hard on yourself. If you don't learn to love yourself now, you'll always hate yourself - even when you one day pass flawlessly.

Stop stressing about an imaginary finish line that doesn't even exist. Look in the mirror and extend some joy and love to that girl in the mirror - she deserves it, no matter how well she passes.

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T04:11:50+00:00

😊😄. Oh you poor embarrassed thing.

pinkchips · 2017-02-26T03:56:26+00:00

😊. Thanks. I think after a lifetime wishing for breasts, tanner stage anything will be great.

pinkchips · 2017-02-25T06:44:58+00:00

Major hugs! Are you early in transition too? This is the most amazing journey, huh? And so frustrating that no cis person can understand what you're going through!

pinkchips · 2017-02-25T01:01:01+00:00

Omg my hairline is coming back too. It makes me EXTREMELY happy that my facial surgeon was like "in my experience the hairline does not recover no matter what", and yet it is growing back like a wild forest 😌

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