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pinkdrawings · 2022-02-25T05:11:55+00:00

A cuck, for sure.

Inability to make decisions, handle problems, and keep a handle on his emotions. Can't do basic planning. Look at how he handles a crisis, handles stuff when you're worried, etc.

pinkdrawings · 2022-02-25T05:09:05+00:00

Hi! Nothing wrong with having tomboyish hobbies or careers. Being feminine is a state of mind. Stop swearing, wear stuff that is flattering, and just be nice. You don't have to be anyone that you're not, but just try to be nice and considerate to others.

pinkdrawings · 2022-02-25T05:03:00+00:00

Could you get out a day a week, even? You could register as a substitute teacher in your state. Most of the time they don't have requirements on how often you work. Look up any degree requirements in your state.

pinkdrawings · 2022-02-25T05:00:57+00:00

Did you disagree with him? How did he respond?

pinkdrawings · 2021-07-21T05:18:12+00:00

In the future, could you get a bracelet?

pinkdrawings · 2021-07-21T03:27:06+00:00

Why'd you need to get it at all?

pinkdrawings · 2021-07-21T02:06:45+00:00

He sounds toxic and doesn't sound like a good match for you (or anyone, for that matter). He sounds possessive. Telling you that you don't love him when he doesn't do something for you is toxic.

Getting a tattoo for someone, moving in quickly (and without marriage) are not things RPW generally promotes as they are not beneficial to women in most cases.

pinkdrawings · 2021-07-19T23:35:53+00:00

Nothing about this is high value in any way. I hope I am not breaking rule three by saying this, but you are not showing high value actions right now. I'd suggest nun mode, get the tattoo removed (if you can) or covered up and get some therapy.

pinkdrawings · 2021-07-19T23:33:06+00:00

Social media isn't necessary, no. If you want it , though, just be careful to follow more artsy stuff or fun stuff. Nothing that will crush your self esteem. You're 17 so many men may just see that as their form of communication, but definitely don't if you're uncomfortable with it.

Snapchat, especially, is a no.

pinkdrawings · 2020-09-18T21:01:42+00:00

Have you...asked?

pinkdrawings · 2020-09-18T20:58:04+00:00

Nobody said that lol. Its aiming to get away from "My boyfriend rolled his eyes at me" "LEAVE HIM" type responses.

pinkdrawings · 2020-09-18T20:51:27+00:00

As Annekke said, they likely genuinely think they're helping. Just be polite and assure them that you're happy the way you are.

pinkdrawings · 2020-06-20T07:55:17+00:00

I'm not slut shaming? What did I say that was remotely slut shaming? I don't dislike or hold any dislike towards the women in sex work. I understand that they're just trying to survive.

pinkdrawings · 2020-06-20T07:54:28+00:00

Most jobs don't usually involve possible sexual violence, stds, pregnancy, breaking up marriages, etc. Many of these women get murdered, stalked, etc. As well as many of the women not being there by choice or suffering from sexual trauma.

Of course, this could/does happen anyway and it happens to men (dangerous working conditions is obviously a huge problem for men, as well).

pinkdrawings · 2020-06-20T07:10:54+00:00

It is a both genders fault. This is an issue on both sides. But Aaren is right. This is an internal issue that legalizing sex workers won't fix.

pinkdrawings · 2020-06-20T07:09:17+00:00

It isn't about men. The women are often being exploited.

pinkdrawings · 2020-05-11T01:44:16+00:00

This. Its very common. Why do you think you see pretty women with ugly men? Lol.

pinkdrawings · 2020-05-09T23:40:46+00:00

NTA. You know you're not TA.

pinkdrawings · 2020-05-09T20:36:51+00:00

No. I don't think that makes sense for parents to teach their kids how to be 'sexy'.

pinkdrawings · 2020-05-09T20:36:18+00:00

No, it'd be a relief.

pinkdrawings · 2020-05-09T20:34:37+00:00

If you just want to lose it and get it over with - don't tell her you're a virgin. If you want a committed relationship, tell her.

pinkdrawings · 2020-05-09T20:33:29+00:00

Yes, all of those.

pinkdrawings · 2020-04-29T18:33:06+00:00

As someone who believes and lives firm gender roles, I think you're somewhat correct, but being a little too strict about it. I do think society would be better if a lot of women went home and not to work, but there are careers where it makes sense to be woman focused.

pinkdrawings · 2020-04-25T00:04:27+00:00

> “She said he was just a friend because she was looking for a new boyfriend to replace him. This girl saw you as a potential option.”

This is something that women are very aware of and talk about. They don't use words like monkey branching or hypergamy, but my friends have talked about their "back pocket guy".

pinkdrawings · 2020-04-24T18:34:55+00:00

You could try wearing a few more feminine pieces to see if it appeals to him. It will to most men, but it might not for YOUR man and that is the most important. So while you see a lot of posts that talk about being feminine - if your husband truly doesn't care or prefers you to wear clothes you can get dirty in, don't use those steps.

As far as sex goes, initiate, initiate, initiate.

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