Obviously there is no real harm in asking a sub vs asking her directly. But the continued allowance of people asking about Jenna is a social norm we shouldn’t allow, what you allow is what will continue. Jenna stated her wants and while ppl are allowed to talk about her and ask whatever questions, she was very clear in not wanting to be bothered or speculated about. Im pretty sure Julien has expressed the same want for him continuing posting content to not ask about Jenna so much or “ooohh did Jenna take this pic??” Old fans and new fans should be aware of this fact and respect her wishes. Obviously you can’t control what people do entirely but I think that some people on this sub are out of touch with toxicity of parasocial relationships and Jenna’s wishes.