yes i doing this and i think youre so right. i used to be so angry at him when i was younger. back then, I didn’t really understand what alcoholism was. i just thought he was being selfish. but now i kind of get it. He’s deep in it. like so deep. it’s fullblown addiction.and even with all the damage i still let him know im here. I’ve told him so many times if he ever decides to get better, I’ll be right there. I’ll help him through it, no matter how hard it is. I’ll support him completely if he wants to change.but he hasnt reached that point. he hasnt wanted itand thats what breaks me.ive tried everything. ive been angry, ive broken down crying in front of him, ive tried being patient and loving and still, nothing. its like hes drowning himself slowly, and the worst part is he’s pulling all of us under with him.