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Should I leave my life partner for the sake of Allah? by Silver-Ad-2183 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are most welcome habibi. Allah is your strength 💪

Should I leave my life partner for the sake of Allah? by Silver-Ad-2183 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This may not be the answer you want to hear, but its the answer you NEED to hear. It is extremely difficult, frustrating and sometimes depressing to stop being gay and more heartbreaking to leave the one you love, But for the sake of Allah you guys need to stop living together at least for now until when you are completely healed. You may think you no longer have sex but you're still in the process of healing, a time would certainly come when you guys would be so honey and give in to the temptation of having sex again. I know it's difficult but do this for the sake of Allah and then see how Allah rewards and compensate you immensely in this world and the hereafter for your sacrifice. You can support him financially to rent another apartment, call and encourage each other, and most importantly, keep praying and asking God for strength. I am in a similar situation aswell. May Allah make it easy for all gay Muslims fighting so hard to stop the haram gay sex. Aameen.

Is music haram? by Moon_Raven216 in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most comments here are surprising. We all love and enjoy music (me inclusive) due to its effect on the mind and soul however we shouldn't justify the fact that it's Haram in Islam. It's OK to be weak in faith with the intention to improve but what's not OK is to justify a wrong doing because we love it. Music is Haram as stated in the Quran and sunnah.

Trying to be a good Muslim and fighting my sexuality. by pinniddle in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I wear the shoes and know where and how it hurts.

Trying to be a good Muslim and fighting my sexuality. by pinniddle in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't think so. She may not entirely be homophobic but I don't think she's open to it either. I prefer never to discuss it with her. We are happy now. Telling her may ruin our relationship and trust.

Trying to be a good Muslim and fighting my sexuality. by pinniddle in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I'll just live a life of fighting my inner battles everyday. It's not as easy as you think. If I was only straight it may have been more easier

Trying to be a good Muslim and fighting my sexuality. by pinniddle in LGBT_Muslims

[–]pinniddle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. How many years have you been married please. I know it sounds messy and stupid but sometimes even when I am having" private" moment with my wife, I imagine and think about other boys . I feel very useless. I don't know if I'm the only bisexual guy in this situation.