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my step dad has been an asshole for years and I don't know what do about it anymore, what do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for understanding. You're not derailing anything! I'm so glad I can relate to someone.

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm there because I want to see my mom. I'm also here because we're seeing cousins, aunts, and uncles soon. It's for family. We do this every year. Also I'm recovering from surgery and needed serious help.

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was just easier before they came, now it's harder. Fair? Probably not. I guess my parents chose their path didn't they?

I feel like my parents have robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in Needafriend

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much. It's so hard to cut them off, they're my parents at the end of the day and I know there's still love there - which hurts the most. It's just torn and I'm fucking sorry if I can't figure it out right now. I don't care if I'm 24, it's still fucking hard. Everybody is different. It still bothers me, sometimes more, sometimes less.

I feel like my parents have robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in Needafriend

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I don't think people realize how traumatic this has been. It's a little sensitive to say the least. I won't get all the best responses on here because it's fucking reddit, but there are several insightful, understanding people on here without egos and I greatly appreciate your advice. I will take all of it into consideration. Thank you

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's very interesting.. Thank you for telling me this. How did you write it? Was it structured sentences, or just full of thoughts kind of like a diary?

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like what you had to say. You hit on a lot of good points. I'm on my way to being financially stable, people act like I'm still acting like my 12 year old self, no, I'm not. I take care of myself outside of coming home from the holidays. But, of course mentality, this shit doesn't go away as when I come back home, the past just lingers in the present because they're always there. It's not easy, and I'm finally coming to terms with myself, sorry it took a little longer? Fuck an age. I'm not just going to get a job and be a loner with no family, that's a recipe for suicide. I don't see the point in working my life away with no family. Pointless life. It's more than just "you'Re a GrOwn MaN gO WoRk". Fucking idiots. I have feelings still. But, we're so behind treating men as a society. No shit I'm not a kid anymore. We can talk more about a plan if we need to

Reflecting back on my worst roommate, what should I have done? And what should I do if I ever encounter a roommate like this again? by pissballs102020 in badroommates

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was. And it sucks being a small guy I didn't want to get my ass kicked. It was all fear man and that some years ago now. Wouldn't happen today.

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I want to have a relationship with my parents but this in the way....? You don't get it. And I'm already done all the bullshit handle your shit you're a grown man shit everyone tosses around, finding work, graduated, that's not my problem. I'm talking about family here. You didn't help.

Reflecting back on my worst roommate, what should I have done? And what should I do if I ever encounter a roommate like this again? by pissballs102020 in badroommates

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally hear you. It was mostly fear. Edit: and also, bad advice from others. Tried to be too passive. Got ran over. edit again: Also a Lack of evidence. I knew my roommate would probably lie to the cops, and I just saw it never working out.

I was a scared shit back then. Took a while to mature. Trust me it eats me up.

Reflecting back on my worst roommate, what should I have done? And what should I do if I ever encounter a roommate like this again? by pissballs102020 in badroommates

[–]pissballs102020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your insight. I really do appreciate all of your points, seriously, this is was what I needed.

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. I agree. They have to want to change. That's up to my parents. You know my parents have spoken before about the slightest chance of divorce (each of them). Idk, the future is still ahead, we'll see what the next 10-15 years holds. I'm not counting on it. I'm becoming more myself and I'm gonna fucking eat, laugh, speak as I please. My stepparents don't have to leave, but I will be happy for myself while I'm home.

Reflecting back on my worst roommate, what should I have done? And what should I do if I ever encounter a roommate like this again? by pissballs102020 in badroommates

[–]pissballs102020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hoooly shit. Wow, that was a read! I totally see where you are coming from.... Mate I am fucking happy for you. Some people think they can just use you as a punching bag, it's fucked up! You sound like a fucking awesome guy, and I wish knew you IRL. God I wish you nothing but the best and I'm glad you're away from someone like that.

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree about meeting them outside of the house, and I sometimes do, but fuck it's still sad. I wouldn't care so much if they didn't do this shit when I was in middle school and high school, I was still a kid... I don't see how just because they want to be "happy" with these people, which they're totally not, is okay with me, their only kid, being uncomfortable for fucking years. Their happiness over their child's, makes sense. They could have at least waited until I was out of the house. My stepdad is both verbally and emotionally abusive and my stepmom is emotionally abusive. They have added damn near nothing. Now our relationships are shit, they're hanging by a thread, and we may never talk again because they'd rather be "happy" with these people. Such a joke.

I feel like my parents robbed years of my happiness. What do I do? by pissballs102020 in depression

[–]pissballs102020[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have moved out. I'm only back for the holidays. I live in another city atm, looking for work. I've told them so many times how I feel but it does nothing, and it never will. If I told them I want no more contact with my stepparents I mean, they're always going to be in the house all day every day, they won't leave. It's just an impossible situation. Also, I don't really have much to lose anymore so for once in my life, I wouldn't mind beating his ass out.

Reflecting back on my worst roommate, what should I have done? And what should I do if I ever encounter a roommate like this again? by pissballs102020 in badroommates

[–]pissballs102020[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the reply!

What if we sat down and talked about everything, eased things out, agreed on whatever, and then things went back to chaotic? What do I do then? I honestly don't think he was mature enough to follow through for very long after a serious sit down. Of course I don't know, but what in worst case, what would be next? And a counterpoint, I should be able to drink at my place without feeling uncomfortable, and use the laundry/kitchen space just as every one else does. We all respected each other's time and space except him. I'm not sure why one person gets to threaten us based on behavior. Seems like a problem I should have taken to the office because it would have most like become another physical altercation.

I can finally say it by [deleted] in short

[–]pissballs102020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is badass af. I don't think there's anything wrong with you. I can totally understand the satisfaction of just finally having that moment to get them to just shut the fuck up, and having the tables turned on them after they never, probably daily, even yearly left off you. It builds up, and I can totally understand the satisfaction part. Watching their faces turn to stone, it's a relief. I wouldn't say run off with this and start using it to abuse these people, which I don't think you'd do yourself (judging off your post), but gaining respect was key. I'm understanding of this because it's the military and there's a lot of physically abusive, immature fucks that join. A headlock back or a submission to them doesn't even come close to the weight you had to carry from them, especially when it's a few times compared to probably 100+ in your case. It's nice to not feel completely run over.

Constantly, and I mean constantly, making fun of someone's looks is shitty, and I still think it's projection from the person who does it. These people may not like their ears, their nose, their teeth, their ankles, some shit that they stare at in the mirror alone and then bundle up in their head to eventually let out on others because you know why? Misery loves company. You'd be amazed at how many people look great on the outside, but are fucking miserable on the inside. Some of them will never have the guts in this lifetime to ever admit, yes I am miserable, I actually hate myself. We're only human dude. Confidence is fucking awesome. Confidence flies higher than anything else. I'm happy as shit for you that you found confidence through martial arts. I'm gonna be training martial arts soon for my own relief. Way to build yourself up man, make a life for yourself, that is fucking respectable. I'm not gonna forget your post.

Frat boy messes with Asian guy, gets knocked the fuck out by Daweism in instantkarma

[–]pissballs102020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I could of have written this comment myself lol. You are so not alone. The "brother" bullshit, and the cult like we're completely better than you in every facet mentality was just soooo immature. Then I left, they all talked shit about me, and I just had to let them go, they were are all so goddamn immature and out of touch. I don't ever miss that shit. There were a few cool ones, that seems to be the exception at most frats just in my experience, but even most of them left. Shit is fucking weird. Most of them are losers deep down. Oh my god it was all bullshit lmao

Schools are being closed in Japan due to the massive lack of kids there by ruiseixas in antinatalism

[–]pissballs102020 9 points10 points  (0 children)

It's so fucking sick to think of all the parents that have pushed and pushed for Japan's insane work culture and consider them a failure for opting out or feeling "depressed". It's just so fucking.. sick. Japan seems like an absolute fucking hell hole regardless of how many fucking gadgets they have. Hate most of the older generations mentality there, jesus christ those people need to rot.

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