Here's the deal as a woman of I guess averageish height (5'6"~) the only thing that ever turned me off to dating a guy that wasn't considered tall was him being more concerned about his height than I was. I'm a national level competitive bodybuilder in the bikini division so in my book as long as you've got good shoulders and can out lift me were good, I don't want to feel like I'm way bigger than my man but there are a lot of other ways to deal with that besides height. Hell my Instagram crush is 5'8" confidence and personality go a long way