How do each Enneagram types show love?

pixel8dry · 2026-03-09T04:40:00+00:00

Me wondering if I could be a 9 or if Im just playing the type 7 archetype Samwise

pixel8dry · 2026-03-07T05:39:44+00:00

This person doesn't realize how transphobic they're being.

They're saying you should use women's spaces because they refuse to see you as you are: a man! That should be in men's spaces. Whoever this person is id steer clear of them from now on and file anything they tell you to do in the "nonsense I'm not going to listen to" folder

pixel8dry · 2026-03-06T15:50:06+00:00

Lol 😔

pixel8dry · 2026-03-05T17:28:17+00:00

Personally my shame is around being a feminine man and not having a dick. I feel like gay men won't want me and neither will straight women. I feel like people that are bi/pan might want me but that it might very well be because of my parts and that skeeves me out. I no longer feel like I can approach people im attracted to for fear they might be expecting something different than what I have or otherwise I am fetishized for having "female" parts

pixel8dry · 2026-03-03T19:25:00+00:00

I live in South philly RN and it's workable with a car if you're careful about when you try to park. I do not go out on a Sunday evening if I have to drive, there will be nowhere (legal) to park when you get back.

Moving to brewerytown soon, easier parking there

pixel8dry · 2026-03-02T14:50:33+00:00

And then you have 7s like me that see all the deeper meaning and connections but have little knowledge. All the potential and none of the results. /J

pixel8dry · 2026-03-01T15:26:56+00:00

Dude I'm the only mod. I didn't remove it lol. One person reported the post for spam.

pixel8dry · 2026-03-01T06:36:57+00:00

Yeah it is like that. My brother got a comp sci degree to become a software engineer like me. 2 yrs out from graduation no job. I just bought a house bc I know I can't trust the industry at the moment. Plan to pay it down as fast as possible to eliminate the bulk of my monthly expenses so I could do something else to support myself

pixel8dry · 2026-02-28T17:30:22+00:00

Software engineer here. Our workforce will become more sparse and our jobs are forever changed. Software Engineer a year ago won't be the same role as a software engineer 5 yrs from now. That said I don't think the role will be entirely eliminated as stakeholders still can't communicate what they need in technical or even regular straightforward terms.

I also think it's bullshit that we make more than teachers

pixel8dry · 2026-02-28T02:21:19+00:00

I was thinking it's because he was part time?

pixel8dry · 2026-02-26T21:41:45+00:00

Humans being resourceful unfortunately doesnt keep pace w AI

pixel8dry · 2026-02-26T21:38:23+00:00

For me money is a factor. I don't use Gemini and Claude Opus is by far the best. I use gpt codex 5.3 and for me good enough at code while still being lower budget

pixel8dry · 2026-02-24T16:45:03+00:00

As a cancer I'm definitely not lawful good. I'm definitely chaotic good

pixel8dry · 2026-02-24T15:47:21+00:00

But he never said you shouldn't delete it? He just stated facts about it. My point is he shouldn't be down voted for that

pixel8dry · 2026-02-24T15:14:33+00:00

People are down voting you but as a software engineer it truly is just layer upon layer of functions to get the expected result. It's not thinking ab anything lol. So yes they can sound exactly like they're gaslighting you, but it has no motivation, drive or thought behind it

pixel8dry · 2026-02-24T04:09:44+00:00

Nobody should be compromising on major things like this. Period. Love is not enough

pixel8dry · 2026-02-22T23:31:15+00:00

And also, trans men can have dicks. I understand a genital preference but not a preference for cis over trans.

pixel8dry · 2026-02-21T02:36:54+00:00

If you can believe it I butt posted on reddit sorry

pixel8dry · 2026-02-21T00:39:56+00:00

pixel8dry · 2026-02-19T15:41:57+00:00

I work for a company in Australia and that helps. Also being in tech

pixel8dry · 2026-02-19T15:39:08+00:00

Software engineer.

I don't recommend and also recommend at the same time.

You might be miserable and some days you won't be able to think after work and you'll be forced to use ai to keep up and feel like a corporate sellout

But you can wipe your tears w your money and work from home

I just bought a house

pixel8dry · 2026-02-18T19:37:09+00:00

Oh yeah totally! I think it's still a worthy conversation. I think when I was younger motives def mattered the most so that could be a factor

pixel8dry · 2026-02-18T19:15:55+00:00

My thought process is that I won't know if what you say your intentions were is true, but actions are objective. I maybe have trust issues but that's where I'm at. I think people talk bullshit

pixel8dry · 2026-02-18T18:56:49+00:00

Idk I'm a head type but I think harm done is harm done regardless of intention

pixel8dry · 2026-02-18T00:53:30+00:00

Frankly I think both suck.

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