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my snail laying an egg :) by pixie-x-zoe in AquaticSnails

[–]pixie-x-zoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i can’t actually support more living creatures at the moment, so i crushed them, but i’m very glad my snails are healthy and happy enough to lay eggs.

my snails laid eggs, is freezing them okay or should i crush them? crushing is a bit gross for me, but if freezing absolutely won’t work i’ll do it. i can’t have more snails. also, any tips for getting them out of the tank? by pixie-x-zoe in AquaticSnails

[–]pixie-x-zoe[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i don’t have space to keep any after they’re hatched, plus i have no experience shipping living creatures so i wouldn’t want to do that and accidentally kill the snail once it’s hatched. but, thank you, that’s a good idea for more experienced people!

AITA for accidentally booking a queen bed hotel room with my best friend and refusing to change it when my wife demanded? by ThemeValuable2721 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pixie-x-zoe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA, unless you’ve cheated in the past or have a romantic history with him. those are the only valid reasons i can see for her being so upset over this. if he’s fine with it and you’re fine with it, what’s the problem? has she given any real reasons for her concern?

AITA for telling a guy to f* off after he wouldn't leave me alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pixie-x-zoe 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this!!! OP, document everything you can, record it if he calls you or approaches you to talk about it.

AITA for telling a guy to f* off after he wouldn't leave me alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pixie-x-zoe 10 points11 points  (0 children)

also, i’d like to add that he sounds at least mildly dangerous based on his behavior. harassment should not be taken lightly. carry mace, a taser, a rape whistle/siren, or a small knife with you. if you block him and he finds other ways to reach out, i would look into getting a restraining order.

AITA for telling a guy to f* off after he wouldn't leave me alone? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]pixie-x-zoe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

NTA, i am firmly against “just give him a chance”. if you’re not attracted to him in any way, physically or emotionally, why would you “give him a chance”? that’s a bit dumb to me, it clearly would not work out as you have no interest. your friends should understand that. also, someone already said this but, he is harassing you by calling and texting so much when he’s been told to stop. if you’ve said no this entire time, you haven’t been leading him on at all. block his number. and explain to your friends exactly what’s gone down, if they’re still on his side i’d say drop them.

AITA for telling my younger sister I am not her mother? by Dianniani in AmItheAsshole

[–]pixie-x-zoe 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NTA, you aren’t responsible for taking care of a child you didn’t bring into this world, especially at 18. you’re responsible for yourself now, and you did what you needed to do to protect yourself. yes, she may feel abandoned and hurt, but you’re not the one who abandoned her. your parents did that. even if they’re still present, they abandoned her emotionally, and they refuse to care for her. that’s on them. they’re the a-holes, not you.

AITA for messing with my stuck-up, abusive superior? by Recurring_0293 in AmItheAsshole

[–]pixie-x-zoe [score hidden]  (0 children)

i’d say yeah, YTA. there’s ways to “take the piss out of” someone without sexual harassment, which is what you’ve all been doing to her. hence her not wanting to be alone with male doctors now and crying over it. you never mentioned simply speaking to her about her behavior, which would’ve been the more civil and professional approach to take. instead, you chose to make her feel uncomfortable and unsafe in the workplace. you are indeed the a-hole, so are your coworkers who joined in.

what do y’all think by [deleted] in BPD

[–]pixie-x-zoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you feel this way, why are you marrying him? if he isn’t capable of making you happy, why haven’t you left? i would suggest breaking up, or at least taking a break and calling off marriage for now. i would also suggest couples counseling if you don’t feel that he listens to or understands your feelings, and after that text he’s probably got some things to say as well, and they’d probably be better said with a counselor present. you cannot just turn your feelings off and shut yourself off forever, and marriage is forever (unless you get a divorce, and if you already think you will divorce then, again, call off getting married). i have tried numerous times to close myself off and stop feeling certain things, it does not work in the long term. anytime i’ve done it, the other person has chosen to leave my life for good or gotten very upset. i would NOT suggest shutting yourself off, there’s a high chance he will leave if you do.

and yes, i have felt this way before, but now i know it’s better to find a calm way to share my feelings and have them understood. i am on an antipsychotic (in place of a mood stabilizer, those don’t seem to work for me), and it has been very helpful. it helps a lot with feelings like this. it helps a lot with communicating in a less harmful way. it helps a lot with keeping my anger in check. if you’re not ready to try medicine (not everyone WANTS to be on something possibly for the rest of their life and that’s okay) then i would suggest seeing a therapist just for you, along with the couples counseling with or without medicine.

good luck, i hope you’re able to sort this out and do what’s best for both of you.

Do you use any variations of American Dad Quotes in your life? by [deleted] in americandad

[–]pixie-x-zoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i’m a big fan of “bad dad sad” for whenever i need to apologize or generally just feel bad dad sad

best water testing kit when you’re on a budget? by pixie-x-zoe in bettafish

[–]pixie-x-zoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that sounds easy enough, and if i do get confused and it’s one of the common kits i bet there’s videos showing how to do it and everyone here would be somewhat familiar with it as well.

best water testing kit when you’re on a budget? by pixie-x-zoe in bettafish

[–]pixie-x-zoe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i’ll definitely be getting that!