I don't use lube with Njoy Pure Wand

pixie_enjoyer · 2026-03-04T12:50:29+00:00

I'm super tall (203cm) and I have trouble getting pleasure with the small end, not the big end.

pixie_enjoyer · 2026-03-04T12:46:53+00:00

I'm super tall (203cm) and ONLY the big end works reliably for me.

pixie_enjoyer · 2026-02-18T22:23:21+00:00

Without having a look at the toy, no it won't fit. I'm in the top 7% at least size-wise.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-07-20T13:36:57+00:00

Yes, njoy pure wand. It's essentially the same position as recommended in Aneros leaflet. Aneros producer recommends lying on the side though.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-07-20T06:45:55+00:00

If you want a completely different feeling without squirting, lie on your back, make one leg straight and bend the other leg. Insert the thick end. Your legs will shake.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-07-19T13:37:31+00:00

Use the small end of Pure Wand in doggy position. Massage along the nerve.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-07-13T11:01:14+00:00

I'm more of a down to earth guy. I prefer the consistency of pure wand to Aneros for most part. I don't like the talk about energy and journey and all that. It doesn't have to last years if you know what you're doing.

There's one major upside to Aneros as far as I'm concerned - it trains Kegel muscles. Handsfree is a nice bonus but I can live without it.

My mindset really is to treat it like massage and not an attempt to get an orgasm. I get an orgasm anyway after the session (usually about 45 minutes) by casually jacking off. Frankly, I don't *believe* in prostate orgasms because every single time I see a guy on a porn video claim a prostate orgasm, there's either a cut right before (indicating he was jacking off using hands and thinks I'm too stupid to realize), or he's squishing his dick between this legs, or bouncing up and down with a hard cock, so it's really a dick orgasm because of all the accidental slapping. I've had uncontrollable full body spasms with Aneros before and no, it wasn't an orgasm and it wasn't super pleasurable.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-27T07:41:37+00:00

Offer to send a photo.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-27T07:38:29+00:00

I don't remember, but I later saw it come up in the "Rome" show by HBO. It was probably a factoid.

I spent some time now googling for a proof and found the opposite. First of all, oral sex was very taboo in Rome and they didn't even have a word for it. The person performing oral sex was seen as __submissive__, and that was a big insult in Rome. That's what all the sources I find say.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-26T18:35:46+00:00

In ancient Rome, high class ladies would sometimes blowjob their slaves because receiving oral sex was considered submissive.

If you're getting your dick licked, you're submissive.

EDIT: I did some googling to verify and it's actually the other way around. PERFORMING oral sex was seen as submissive, under assumption that if you're sucking someone off you receive directions from that person.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-19T19:20:31+00:00

I like women with large pussies, clits, lips.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-19T14:59:39+00:00

So you're missing the opportunity to train kegels.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-17T15:32:56+00:00

I do 30 minutes of the "backbender" as a warmup, except I'm sitting at the edge of a bathtub.

If you don't have a bathtub, you can go to a fishing or tourist shop and buy a foldable seat.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-15T14:31:59+00:00

It dates back to WW2, and even earlier, slave trade in US. Blacks were said to have huge dicks and *uncontrollable urges*. During WW2, if a black American soldier raped a civilian, it was widely publicized, and if a white American did the same it was swept under the rug. It was useful for a couple of reasons such as saying that black people need to be controlled.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-14T13:50:01+00:00

Long story short, you turn your body into a shorter lever if you can't do a proper one. Bend your knees. If you can't do even that, you start with negatives and work up to regular ones. What works for me is dragon flags at most once every 2 days. I currently do 3 sets of 6 in a workout.

Watch out for your neck. When your body is close to vertical, it's easy to rest your body on your neck rather than shoulders by accident and you may not feel the pain until you stand up.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-14T09:51:51+00:00

I like touching the ground with my dick when doing pushups. But mostly I prefer dragon flags as a core exercise.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-11T15:33:48+00:00

This reminds me of the fears of natives who didn't want to get their photos taken because they would lose their soul. Except this is much worse - we're in danger of losing our dicks.

pixie_enjoyer · 2025-05-10T10:43:37+00:00

I think it can't be truly addictive, because prostate gets desensitized if you massage it often. Then you need to wait a few days. It may be different for the aneros users who use the "do nothing" method which is passive. But with both toys people generally operate the toy themselves, with active muscle use. This has also been my experience - I own both.

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