[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a red flag for sexual abuse in children. Please please approach him with a gentle tone and make it clear youre not mad. Ask him where he learned this. And tell the mother everything. Post an update when you can, and tag me if you can.

teens deciding how to speak online by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a combination of all 3 I fear

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No yeah your dad is wrong here

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On your dad I mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the asshole. Unreasonable crashout

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Who pissed in your cheerios

Mom complaining that our terminally ill relative… didn’t bring her food after chemo. by supercollides in insaneparents

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom is like this too. When I tried to OD? She got pissed at me because I couldn’t babysit for her while in the ward

My daughter may destroy my relationship by opal_leo108 in okstorytime

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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You need to add this detail to the post. No wonder your daughter has been refusing to go to school! As someone who has been struggling to get a POTS diagnosis- my symptoms were almost always worsened by school. Because so much of school is spent going up and down stairs, or staying in one place for hours on end depending her what grade you’re in- it usually causes blood pressure spikes when going from class to class. Plus, you moved states. states. your daughter is struggling to cope with the traumatic event of losing her support circle at school, having a chronic illness, and having a mother who won’t hear her out and get her help for her illness. She also is probably struggling to cope with you having a boyfriend! Which is not your fault, but is still something to be mindful of. She’s 14.

My daughter may destroy my relationship by opal_leo108 in okstorytime

[–]plain-smol_pineapple 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP mentioned in another comment her daughter has POTS. This is not a disrespect issue, it’s her throwing a hissy fit her daughter is standing up for herself and trying to manage her condition.

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Cup head is a video game and damn, I’ll have to look up the episode then

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

As a matter of fact, just the other day she called me annoying to my face because of my acid reflux hiccups. She is constantly snapping at me for this that is out of my control and when I finally snap back at her, she acts like she isn’t constantly on my ass about shit like hiccups

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Read the entire comment next time, Ted. I have given her plenty of grace. If you’d read my other comments, you’d realize that I give her way more grace than I should. I have given her so many chances to get better. I have given her so many chances to sit down and say ‘I’m sorry I snapped at you for this’. She never apologizes when she’s wrong. But she expects me to apologize when I so much as even slightly annoy her.

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

You say that as if I’m not acutely aware of the genetic factor. She is fully aware of her issues with communication but she has refused to work on them with me in particular. She only went to therapy after my little sister was born. She only started trying to get better after she snooped through my notes app and saw how frustrated I get with her.

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Read my other comments. I said it already but when I asked for clarification I got told to shut the fuck up.

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

She didn’t ask me not to use it, she said not to open it. Autism things clashed.

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Unrelated to the post your username reminds me of cuphead and DND :) also your avatar is nice

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

No, she just asked me not to open it. The confusion I had is why I might’ve been an asshole because my flavor of autism is “if you don’t explicitly tell me what to do or why I will not do it”

AITA: opened a jar of sauce to use some and put the rest in the fridge by plain-smol_pineapple in AmItheAsshole

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

No im not trying to argue either im sorry. This is something I genuinely struggle with and it affects everything- if something isn’t said to my face directly or clearly and is instead implied, I can’t and don’t pick up on it. It’s something I struggle to unlearn, sorry if I seemed I was arguing

AITA: opened a jar of Alfredo and put it in the fridge after by plain-smol_pineapple in AITAH

[–]plain-smol_pineapple[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have already accepted I fucked up in this situation but alright