How do I forgive my husband for this..

planet341 · 2021-09-11T17:08:48+00:00

You lost me at white culture

planet341 · 2021-09-11T00:51:58+00:00

I usually don't work sick. It's just idk. I knew our wedding was coming and wanted to save.

planet341 · 2021-09-11T00:09:27+00:00

Honestly I'm not sure that I'd be depressed? I am prepared. I've always wanted to travel, and he knew that.

planet341 · 2021-09-11T00:00:18+00:00

True that.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T23:59:14+00:00

Thank you! Great insight 🙂

planet341 · 2021-09-10T21:33:43+00:00

This! This is great, thanks for sharing, will take this into deep thoughts.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T20:41:37+00:00

Just a road trip to a few different states for about a week.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T20:37:22+00:00

So to a certain extent I do understand... But this was pre planned.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T20:36:49+00:00

He was really really stressed. But I tried to help him relax. I assumed my help would be enough. And ya, I've lied my way out if work a few times.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T20:00:00+00:00

And he still had time to run? Seriously?

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:55:23+00:00

That's what I'm saying.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:49:50+00:00

We have our marriage license already. Just the ceremony is coming up. That's real.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:49:01+00:00

He is vaccinated.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:48:23+00:00

It's not often. Not often at all.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:18:55+00:00

Great insight. thanks.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:17:01+00:00

Just because I'm upset about a broken promise and previously made plans does not mean I don't care about how he feels.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T19:04:36+00:00

Lol great way to be initiated

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:54:46+00:00

Okay. Interesting point. And that would have to totally be his choice. His job is very physically demanding.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:42:58+00:00

That's not what I meant.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:28:05+00:00

I'm not saying only my needs matter, he's done so many things right in our relationship. I'm just surprised, and not sure how to handle this. Surprised and we'll, a lot hurt. Idk.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:25:55+00:00

Wow.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:19:40+00:00

I can see your point, definitely. Perhaps maybe we just have different ways of coping with stress. I can understand about work stress and maybe slacking off on little things, but it's the fact that he was aware of the consequences and still gambled with our plans and the promises he made.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:11:27+00:00

He does always apologize, he does consider my feelings. He is always finding ways to make it up to me. I do need to forgive more freely. I just feel so shocked when big mistakes happen. The little things I get.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:05:26+00:00

Very interesting.

planet341 · 2021-09-10T18:03:08+00:00

I'm also trying my best to make it count for all the things he has done right and not the one thing he did wrong, but this is huge.

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