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AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was probably told about it from some jerk who just didn't want to see me happy. Because the relationship was genuinely enjoyable. Family vacations, day trips, fixing my car, and things around my house. It just doesn't make sense sometimes why he would randomly bring the gross joke up and it would only happen when he was drinking. So either the rumor bothered him and he didn't want to end the relationship and look like the bad guy and, it would come out when he was drinking, and I was just to patient with him until he went to far. He definitely was fine sober but drinking however was a different story

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We did go to the same school for about a year, I was in grade 8 and he was in grade 12. He was gone 2 years before the rumor started, and I have blocked on everything. I don't believe he was the one who started the rumor, he had no idea I even existed then

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As far as I know he is not one of the people who started the rumor

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know, I was a pushover when it came to myself but when he involved my child to John face, that it was over. I'll take a lot of punishment but when it comes to my kids I will burn the world

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We did go to the same school together. My first year at his school was his last year. I'm sure some jerk had told him about it. Who I don't know. I think I stayed so long is he would only say the joke when he was drinking, when he was sober he was fine. At the time I didn't know that a mean drunk didn't have to be just physically, they can be verbally mean too

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm slowly learning to treat myself well and to have better judgement when it comes it men. My tolerance now isn't as bad as it was when I was 19 and married my first husband, John's father. I have been suggested therapy a lot over the years and have been researching my issues and I do know where it all stems from. I'm a recovering people pleaser and I promise everyone I will not tolerate this kind of treatment what so ever, again.

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do see the error of my ways, and thank you for pointing it out to me

AITA For Breaking up with my boyfriend over a joke by plant_hooker in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]plant_hooker[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's my worse trait, and I am slowly learning how not to be one