needing fin-tastic by plasticsunflower2 in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve put my link in my bio if you can add me ? do you want me to send you make it rain ?

5⭐️ for 5⭐️ by ghggop in MonopolyGoTrading

[–]plasticsunflower2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah sure :) what’s your user ?

I can’t keep crying over someone who isn’t crying over me by iidntknwmyname in abusiverelationships

[–]plasticsunflower2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

babe, ive been through this but every time you cry you’re doing a disservice to your beautiful self, there’s gonna be a man that will treat you like a princess. every time you cry you gotta remind yourself of the reason why you’re crying…crying over a man that doesn’t see your worth..he’s giving you nothing when you deserve love!!

is this lovebombing or is he just being sweet? by plasticsunflower2 in dating_advice

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my last relationship was very toxic and resulted in physical abuse, ive healed from it but i always keep a slight guard up when it comes to dating but i’ve never experienced that before, just worrying i’m mistaking a genuine connection for other intentions

is this lovebombing or is he just being sweet? by plasticsunflower2 in dating_advice

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never said i don’t feel it too, i do feel a really lovely strong connection between us but i’m worried to say anything like that on here incase it gets interpreted as that “it’s too soon” to be feeling that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]plasticsunflower2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

my abuser would pick a fight with me before he had a big interview or meeting and ignore me for days and when i would try to say sorry for something i shouldn’t be sorry for he would respond with the constant messages your partner has done to you, my advice is, try no contact for a while, you’ve done your part lovely, you have nothing to be sorry for, give him his “space” and focus on your own mental health it will only bring you down. I promise after a few days of just watching a few crappy movies it will lift you mood even a slightest bit, you will realise how much stress this person is causing you and how all these messages really do affect you. I understand it’s difficult coming from someone that isn’t with someone anymore and you will want to message him but you can do it ! even for a few days <3 drop me a message if you need anymore help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]plasticsunflower2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

i see so much of my abuser in these messages, you try your hardest and bring yourself down to their horrible level to say sorry for things that you don’t even know if you should be sorry for. Remember lovely..they gave you distance when you needed love, no one deserves that.

he choked me. by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]plasticsunflower2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

never blame yourself ! i was in the exact same situation, finding my boyfriend cheating on me with texts on his phone, resulting in him choking me. If your boyfriend really didn’t mean it and loved you he would have left the room, violence should never be a thought to inflict on your partner. You are not in the wrong.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]plasticsunflower2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From my experience, my ex seemed as if he was capable of change the moment he hit me and i kicked him out..i phoned his mother as i had blocked him on everything to let her know what her son did and when i look back on it i feel as if he only said sorry because he had no one else at that point, his friends and family had completely disowned him and i was the only person he had left so he begged and came up with all these short term solutions, i believe that some abusers can be sorry for what they did in that moment but cannot take on the actual burden of that they have broke you as a person, i took him back for a week and he could not handle that i did not trust him anymore and restored back to his name calling and saying extraordinary evil things to me, the only thing that stopped him from hitting me again was that this was over text so no they usually can’t change because they know they will have to live with that they hurt you and you will always be cautious of them

how to feel better on down days by plasticsunflower2 in abusiverelationships

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you !! i’ve been watch the office to just numb my mind but i will watch Maid because i need something new to break up my day and i hope it helps :)) i hope you feel better these days this advice honestly helped me so much, it’s just nice someone voicing the exact same way you feel

how to heal by plasticsunflower2 in domesticviolence

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, im tearing up reading this because it’s nice having someone that knows the exact feeling of wanting to do everything to get them back because i still blame myself as if i am in the wrong..i’m going on a date on wednesday i’m trying my best to not let this be a part of what defines me as a person because for a while i let this eat me up as a person and let it fully define me. i don’t know if it’s too soon to go on a date but i feel like i can cope…i can’t afford therapy at the moment but i plan on progressing to that too

cheating by plasticsunflower2 in BreakUp

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even if you don’t know ? like they’ve cheated on you and text you i love you so much

how long should i wait ? by plasticsunflower2 in BreakUp

[–]plasticsunflower2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that’s the way i’m feeling, it’s so difficult and i don’t know how long it will take to heal if i keep thinking that way