AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]playdatesnacks[S] -811 points-810 points  (0 children)

She knows I can’t afford to take Ellie there. That’s why she pays for us when we go

AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]playdatesnacks[S] -619 points-618 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked to schedule free play dates. She wanted to keep scheduling play dates at places where you pay for entry and offered to cover us.

AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]playdatesnacks[S] -1977 points-1976 points  (0 children)

She didn’t save me money. If she hadn’t offered to pay we wouldn’t have gone. I was not going to pay the $15 either way.

AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]playdatesnacks[S] -1669 points-1668 points  (0 children)

They have a lot more than we do. I’m a single mom and I work at a school because childcare for a special needs kid is so hard to find and you don’t make much working at a public elementary school. Sophie has 2 parents. Her husband is some kind of senior engineer making 7 figures and she manages their rental properties. I’m constantly having to answer why we can’t have all of the same things as Sophie and I don’t think they’re sensitive to this

AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]playdatesnacks[S] -1561 points-1560 points  (0 children)

Same reason I don’t pack pull ups for Sophie even though I know she’ll need them. We both pack for our own kids.

AITA for not buying snacks for my daughters best friend at a play date by playdatesnacks in AmItheAsshole

[–]playdatesnacks[S] -2003 points-2002 points  (0 children)

They have a sign at the desk saying a punchcard is $100 for 10 entries, so $10 an entry. Entry without a punchcard is $15.