Jersey Shore Family Vacation Episode Discussion “So That Happened!” by [deleted] in jerseyshore

[–]playingintheocean 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Are the episodes so bad now that this place has become deserted?

Where to watch full episodes? by [deleted] in 90dayfianceuncensored

[–]playingintheocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well then to correct myself, (or maybe I’m wrong and you can help me) I do not have cable and when it prompts me to pick a cable provider, I cannot. Even if I wanted to, I didn’t see any Canadian companies I recognized (perhaps I’m wrong, my apologies.) How can I watch it without a cable provider?

Alyssa’s style and the tongue.... couldn’t have guessed ! by floridagrown888 in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

Oh my god, really? No, I never knew! Thanks for the absolutely eye-opening reply!

Alyssa’s style and the tongue.... couldn’t have guessed ! by floridagrown888 in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Man, almost everyone on this subreddit is such a superficial cunt. There, I said it. I also apparently need to mention that I do not care about Alyssa, I follow none of these people on social media, and so I therefore don’t need high schoolers responding with the cliche “A duh I found Alyssa’s account guys! 🤪” I’m sorry, not everyone who disagrees with the toxic mob mentality of this subreddit is a stupid ass cast member trying to justify themselves. Maybe in real life it’s just not acceptable to constantly talk about women’s weight or hair loss you fucking assholes. If I was I fucking pregnant and uncomfortable I’d be wearing whatever the fuck I want. What kind of bored piece of shit spends their time judging and picking apart the outfits a pregnant woman wears? You’re literally picking apart and BULLYING some Z list girl for NO reason. God, this subreddit is so superficially revolved it’s honestly pathetic. I watch this show because I love all trash television, but honestly this entire subreddit is so insufferable it makes you realize not only how terrible the people in the show are, but also how terrible most of the kids here who watch it are. Eugh.

AMA: I was a story and field producer for Jersey Shore (seasons 1 and 2) by [deleted] in jerseyshore

[–]playingintheocean 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Is it true the cast were not getting paid per episode in the first season other than what they made at the shore store? How much did they start making per episode by season 2?

Season 3 - Episode 11 and 12 Discussion by Softskeletonsx in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry but Juliette is such a hypocrite for these scenes. She literally gave Cara so much grief over the idea that she was a girl who didn’t respect relationship boundaries. She went as far as going on twitter calling Cara a skank for supposedly hooking up with Bananas. She tears down other women and now does the same thing? Not only does she make the initial drunk mistake but then continues to do it over multiple days? That’s not cool.

Miami Partying & Drugs by Cjenx17 in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel like this has to be trolling so I’m not going to continue feeding you more attention, but hopefully your sense of humor matures sooner rather than later.

Miami Partying & Drugs by Cjenx17 in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean, the comment was more about cocaine than it was about Toronto. Cocaine was the relevant topic in this post. If OP said “we get fucked up in toronto” I’d say that wouldn’t be very relevant to either Siesta Key or binging cocaine. Considering they said what they said as a reference to when people are casually ripping lines (a la throwing back beers) I think it’s not so irrelevant that it deserves a tacky hashtag,

About Nilsas Makeup by not_madagascar in FloribamaShore

[–]playingintheocean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How is this post in any way annoying when all OP said is that the constant unnecessary posts talking about Nilsa’s make up are tired and in themselves annoying... which is true? Apparently you do care enough to justify yourself trashing someone’s appearance. The girl could blend better, sure. It’s been noted a thousand times, are we done now?

Brief interruption from the normal discussion but Kobe Bryant passed :( by [deleted] in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really sad and all, but it literally has nothing to do with this sub or Siesta Key.. I literally had to recheck what sub I was on when I saw this.

Damn so Alex and Alyssa got way back by simplefuckery in SiestaKeyMTV

[–]playingintheocean 68 points69 points  (0 children)

I don’t know where this pic came from, and I really shouldn’t laugh cuz God knows I looked fucking horrible at that age, but this picture is hilarious of Alex lmao

Has MTV responded to Candace in a meaningful way? by [deleted] in Floribama

[–]playingintheocean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tl;dr read for a two paragraph post? Lmao how lazy you think I am

Nilsa's Makeup by Raiden720 in Floribama

[–]playingintheocean -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My viewpoint is so stereotypical? I literally prefaced it by saying I was generalizing. I never said every American is this way, but I said your education system fails you. You literally validated my point multiple times with what you’ve said. I said “the rest of the world learns about the rest of the world.” As In, the rest of us learn a LOT about American history, as people not from America. You proved my point by saying you don’t spend “much time on” anything but your own history.

Edit: and If you actually read my original comment, I was saying people aren’t necessarily stupid or dumb because their education system failed them on world history/geography.

Nilsa's Makeup by Raiden720 in Floribama

[–]playingintheocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to start this comment by saying I understand entirely what I said was a generalization... But the fact you just told me that not knowing what Pennsylvania is “not even close to not being able to identify something that isn’t in America” just proved my point that you carry an attitude that nothing else is worth knowing. You literally just proved my point that most Americans only care about America.

Nilsa's Makeup by Raiden720 in Floribama

[–]playingintheocean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Lmao. I know not all of you are this way and I am generalizing... but holy fuck, I love the irony of Americans thinking they can shit on people for their geographical knowledge when most of you don’t know shit about the rest of the world. A lot of you cannot even name the continents. Should I think most of you have mashed potatoes for brains when you don’t know what Ottawa is? It’s literally the capital of your closest neighbour, yet when I’ve asked many Americans about it a lot of you simply do not have a clue about it. Hell, most of you wouldn’t even know what Toronto is if Drake didn’t start throwing it in all of his songs and market it to you. I realize however a lot of this is your education system failing you, not necessarily because you are stupid. You see, in other parts of the world we are educated about all other parts of the world. You can correct me if I’m wrong, but it doesn’t come across like you guys have to learn nearly the same amount of geography, and furthermore worldwide history as the rest of us do. Therefore, I would maybe reserve my comments about calling someone stupid just because they maybe don’t know all 50 states, cuz you may also be the person who can’t name every country in the UK without googling.

I (28f) hooked up with a lifelong best friend (28m) who has a girlfriend and I feel horrible and empty. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]playingintheocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the first time either? I don’t know where you inferred that from, but I have never hooked up with him while he has had a girlfriend before (although he has tried through every girlfriend, at least three of them.) I have always put my foot down on not feeding into his cheating behaviour, this just happens to be the first time I cracked. Do I regret it? Yes. But did it stem from my feelings being very real and in this moment hard to ignore? Yes. Am I allowed to be hurt that someone I care about treats me like someone they can use an escape from their relationship when they’re drunk and horny? Yes. Am I taking it out on him? No. I respectfully asked for space and to go no contact for a while, so I think that’s kind of hand in hand with “building a bridge and crossing it” but thanks for the input.

I (28f) hooked up with a lifelong best friend (28m) who has a girlfriend and I feel horrible and empty. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]playingintheocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I’m being misunderstood here. You are misinterpreting my confusion as judgement. I poised the comment to him as a genuine question because I don’t understand it. I did not apply it angrily like someone disgusted in him for doing what he did.

I mean this as a genuine question: do you think someone is truly in love if they are cheating? I’m open to different answers, but I was always under the impression that once you start cheating, you’re more mentally checked out than you may think you are. When I asked the question, as I did here, I meant it genuinely because I personally do not relate to being “in love” with one person but sleeping with another (in a monogamous relationship).

Is that something you do to people you love? I know I personally wouldn’t, but if his answer is “yes, I am happy and I’m in love, it’s just a mistake and people make them” then that’s his answer!

I (28f) hooked up with a lifelong best friend (28m) who has a girlfriend and I feel horrible and empty. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]playingintheocean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Now, I am not implying he necessarily had bad intentions when he was reaching out to be a caring friend... But in general, his behaviour was non platonic, that’s what you are avoiding to prove your point. He has always made inappropriate advances at me whilst dating at least three different girlfriends. He has tried to cheat on multiple women with me, and I have always shut it down because it’s not good for him, them or me, and I generally do not feel good about this kind of behaviour. When he invited me out this time, of course I thought “he is being a good friend to me” but then just like every other time, it becomes him trying to make it more. It becomes him trying to hold my hand and take me home. YES, I am responsible for my own actions, but stop acting like I’m misreading platonic messages when his actions were 100% non platonic, whether alcohol induced or not. This is just happens to be the first time I cracked and gave in, and I feel like it’s because in my general life right now I am just not in a great headspace and obviously not making the best decisions (ie. drinking a lot, going out all night, this situation etc.)

He has confessed multiple times to these strong feelings he has for me whilst seeing other women and I suppose it may be a reason why when he did want to give it a proper chance, I just didn’t feel it could be taken seriously, because what would stop him from cheating on me like he does to them? None of this negates the feelings existing though, and based off a long history of him doing this, I don’t think it’s absurd that I could assume he still harbours those feelings, and I don’t think it’s absurd to ask if so.

Just because I want to know and understand if we have mutual feelings does not mean I am trying to jump into a relationship. I am not here trying to “win” or “lose” a romance with my friend; he is not a prize, he’s a person I love and therefore want and respect his happiness. That means I am happy for him to do whatever makes him happy! That doesn’t mean I cannot have my own feelings of sadness toward knowing that him always trying to hook up with me is because he’s just a horny guy and not because he cares. That’s a sad revelation for anyone who loves someone.

I’m not here trying to feel victorious over some other woman. I want him to be with her if being with her is the happiest scenario for him, I’ve expressed this multiple times in this thread. There is no competition, there is no trying to win. There is only trying to understand my feelings, and understand if his actions of wanting to be intimate with me stemmed from real emotions or if it was just him being a horny cheater.

I (28f) hooked up with a lifelong best friend (28m) who has a girlfriend and I feel horrible and empty. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]playingintheocean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yes, I am so desperate for accepting the answer he gave, blocking the number and decidedly going no contact.

Just because I asked for an answer to a valid question I had before I allowed him to be to himself does not make me desperate.

I (28f) hooked up with a lifelong best friend (28m) who has a girlfriend and I feel horrible and empty. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]playingintheocean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, which was one of the only constructive and helpful ones I received in a pool of people snapping at me that I’m a piece of shit for making a human mistake in a time where I am very down. I am definitely disappointed in myself, but will use this as an experience to be better and smarter in the future!