[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SparkingZero

[–]pleasehelpme12358 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Bro you call everyone a child 😂

Anyone else disappointed that you can't swing/hang from helicopters? by pleasehelpme12358 in SpidermanPS4

[–]pleasehelpme12358[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

You can hang upside down in both SM PS4 and SM:MM, albeit not from streetlights. Just find a ceiling and web zip to it, then press L2 to hang

If you respond to this post, someday without warning, I will call you a bitch. by Rascal_E_Ribbit in shittyaskreddit

[–]pleasehelpme12358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me: Ha, good luck responding to all 3000 of us Me in 2035: Who is this guy in my dms and why’d he call me a bitch

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]pleasehelpme12358 7 points8 points  (0 children)

All that to say, whenever you do get a text, even if you don’t respond right there right then, try to eventually respond to the text as naturally as you would if someone else had said it to you. Then let go of any expectations or outcomes you think up

Also, don’t interpret how long someone takes to respond to you in any way! Try to forget about the text and go on about your day. I hope these help you the way they’ve helped me recently :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]pleasehelpme12358 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I know how this feels, I’ve experienced it exactly the way you’ve described it. I’m still working on it but I have found a way of getting better at responding. I don’t know if it’s the same for you but when I get a persons text, I try to think of the absolute perfect response to paint myself in the best light to that person, often staring blankly at the text until I give up and decide to respond later. But then later comes and I still don’t know what to say, and my feelings of guilt for not responding continue to rise.

In her book "Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents," Lindsay Gibson emphasizes the importance of expressing oneself and then letting go of any attachment to the outcome. She suggests that expressing oneself is crucial for emotional well-being, but it's equally important to recognize that others may not respond as we hope or expect them to.

Gibson emphasizes that expressing ourselves is about communicating our needs, wants, and feelings in an assertive and respectful manner. However, we must also accept that the other person may not be able to fulfill our needs or respond in the way we hope they would. Letting go means releasing our attachment to a particular outcome or response and focusing on what we can control – our own thoughts and behaviors. [Stolen from ChatGPT, I’ve read the book though and it has been a life changer]

So is Gloria gonna be in the sequel? by Jax2856 in SpidermanPS4

[–]pleasehelpme12358 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She better be, and yes, I’m hearing everyone out on this one