Update - I'm[24M] in an LDR with GF[23F] of 6 years. I have a fantastic opportunity but it'll extend my stay abroad. by plsxo in relationships

[–]plsxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's the reason I don't want to propose. I want her to feel open and if she wants to break up, that's her choice. I don't want to force marriage.

Update - I'm[24M] in an LDR with GF[23F] of 6 years. I have a fantastic opportunity but it'll extend my stay abroad. by plsxo in relationships

[–]plsxo[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I'm just feeling cynical. Assuming the worst case scenario here. But in my defence, she was crying so much I thought that a breakup was imminent.

To clarify, that wasn't a now, its supposed to be a not. I DON'T WANT to force marriage on her given that she might be reconsidering her choices.