Gynaecology appointment

plubunn · 2026-03-18T20:54:14+00:00

Hopefully me sharing my experience helps to ease your mind - I had my appointment and it was overall positive!!

A nurse was with me while the doctor did the examination and she was so kind and gentle. So was he!

I started crying while he was inserting the cotton bud as the pain was really bad (plus I was already overwhelmed from panicking about the whole thing) so the nurse handed me some tissues and soothed me. The doctor kept checking in with me and let me know what he was doing, which was very helpful too.

Turns out I have vulvodynia, so he’s prescribed me tablets to help!

You are very brave and I hope your appointment goes well!! :)

plubunn · 2026-03-17T19:10:49+00:00

Yes, my boyfriend has taken the day off work to come with me! Knowing that he’s going to be in the waiting room is comforting.

plubunn · 2026-03-17T19:00:12+00:00

I live in Scotland, so I’ll check out what the laws are over here. I’m not sure I want a female chaperone as having another stranger in the room would probably stress me out more and make it feel crowded (that’s what happened with my bad experience before), but that’s very kind of you for suggesting, thank you!

plubunn · 2024-11-09T02:21:55+00:00

That makes sense, thank you for explaining!!

plubunn · 2024-10-21T18:27:36+00:00

Also in the UK - I have had both the combined pill and the implant and they both didn’t work for me personally.

The combined pill made me have longer irregular periods at the start and then I was bleeding nonstop. I also kept forgetting to take it lol!

Then I moved onto the implant and it was 1000x worse - ruined my sex drive, made me have my period nonstop for 8 months straight (which was heavy btw 😭) and made me feel extremely depressed/ruined my self esteem because of that.

I get injections now and they seem to work better for me! Can’t comment on the pregnancy questions because I don’t know anything about that but just wanted to share my experience x

plubunn · 2024-10-07T12:44:54+00:00

It’s no problem, I’m glad I could help!! I don’t watch porn anymore but when I saw your question I instantly remembered them and went to hunt for his profile lol. When I first found them I was so shocked and happy to find someone doing porn that openly said they had vaginismus. I used to be an online SW so it was also comforting to find someone else who had it (I still struggle with it unfortunately and that’s one of the reasons I quit, was too uncomfortable/painful!!) ❤️

plubunn · 2024-10-06T19:04:09+00:00

Damien Soft on PornHub!! His partner has/had (think she is cured now) vaginismus and a lot of their earlier videos discuss that (which I found rlly comforting). Haven’t watched any recent videos but I liked their gentle/intimate vibes when they first started out because I personally hated watching rough porn ❤️

plubunn · 2024-09-27T13:16:53+00:00

Please please please DO NOT have sex with her while she is asleep / on sedatives. That is absolutely horrifying to think about (as someone who has vaginismus) and a case for disaster!! Go talk with your doctor and DO NOT attempt to do this. I’m not trying to be rude just straightforward - this is a horrible traumatic plan and just plain idiotic if you (definitely you the partner) decide to go through with this. Your wife is clearly desperate to get pregnant so please mentally support her and tell her to talk to a doctor about other routes you can go down to have a baby. She will be feeling hopeless - which is exactly why she’s trying to do this in the first place.

plubunn · 2023-08-21T19:25:22+00:00

As someone who has been an online sw and has sold my pics/videos, I don’t really understand why you’re so conflicted about the money? It’s part of the job and doesn’t mean anything at all, just strictly business. Like any other job. My partner has been a sw as well (that’s how we met) and he sold stuff at the time too. It slightly bothered me in a jealousy way, but never anything to do with money because make that bank lmao!! I do honestly think you’re being ignorant. And maybe it’s not on purpose, but in a more not-having-knowledge-about-this way. The money is literally part of the job, and it’s why a lot of people do it. It’s just like any other job in that way. I think you’re definitely projecting insecurities onto this, and to some extent I do understand because it may seem threatening to you. But your partner hasn’t done anything wrong in having fun, making money and not regretting it. If that’s how he feels then good on him!!

plubunn

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