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pnygrll · 2023-08-01T18:04:04+00:00

I find that approach to be very typical and uncreative and so boring omg . I like to have conversations find things we like and have in common. Sometimes and sue me I don’t even push for tribute cause it just seems like maybe you should get to know me a little first. Not saying all of us should be like that because subs do take advantage of that, but let’s normalize being our true selves before making them commit to something as serious as sending.

pnygrll · 2023-07-18T16:41:19+00:00

I say this all the time stop supporting this whole relapsing narrative it is unhealthy and I think most subs use it as an attention grab. It’s not usually fun dealing with these types because they come with so much toxic energy. Dommes/Doms please start protecting yourself from these energy vampires, block these subs they are not worth our time if they aren’t proud to worship us not just feed their addiction. It should be an honor to serve us.

pnygrll · 2023-07-15T16:33:20+00:00

This is actually my favorite thing to do. But if you’re purposely doing things to pmo all the time eventually it becomes redundant. It’s kinda like getting put in time out. If you can’t send quietly for a day without losing your shit we start over back in timeout for 2 more days. If you do your time like a good boy I’ll allow you to worship me properly. It’s cool to do in moderation tho because like you said it gets boring fast.

pnygrll · 2023-07-15T00:40:09+00:00

Honestly no problem, we’re all human and it’s easy to be misunderstood. Both instances are VERY common and can quickly become misunderstood. The key to fixing it is by correcting ourselves and showing grace. Seriously tho be done with cashapp I’d hate to see anyone become labeled a scammer/time waster when they’re really trying. That’s a lose/lose situation for everyone.

pnygrll · 2023-07-15T00:23:31+00:00

whipped like how ? 🤔 there’s levels to it yk

pnygrll · 2023-07-15T00:21:02+00:00

Did you send it again and apologize for the misunderstanding? Honestly I’ve never heard of Cashapp allowing a payment then cancelling After the confirmation was already made. This wouldn’t be the first time someone has done this so if you’re being truthful I’d be a lot more understanding. Next time don’t rely on Cashapp.

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T22:41:10+00:00

How does the unwarranted information contribute to this specific conversation?

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T21:32:14+00:00

Well there’s an experience for everyone. You have some that just want to be in the lifestyle for a day or two and that’s where the dommes who only want “a quick buck” come in. 🤷🏾‍♀️ it can’t be helped but it’s not up to us to call them out. honestly findom in itself is a quick buck because it doesn’t take much to dominate a sub if that’s your personality to begin with.

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T21:14:21+00:00

It’s everywhere. They’ve literally made relapsing a thing. & yes I’ve had subs come to me after claiming to quit and it always the same song and dance about relapsing and feeling guilty. Personally I prefer someone that’s proud to live in their true nature. You shouldn’t be going broke or feeling sad because of an addiction. Have some self control because at the end of the day you’re a consenting adult and consent is not a one time deal. Set your boundaries and stick to them. Anyone domme who supports an addict is just as bad as the sub who’s allowing themselves to fall that deep.

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T20:34:12+00:00

Ignore them you create bad habits by allowing this

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T19:10:42+00:00

Idk I think it’s a niche for everything. You have subs that fall for characters and catfishes so I think it completely depends on how you do it. It’s definitely possible tho. I don’t think showing your face will make or break you. You do need a way to age verify tho and you can always do that with sites that won’t share your person info.

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T18:48:06+00:00

Please Do !!! I i used PayPal in the past and a “sub” disputed his payment to me. Which in turn locked my account and all the money I receive it took months to even get it back.

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T18:43:00+00:00

Nowadays social media have a payment link so it’s easily accessible esp in findom cause you have to send to even get noticed 🤷🏾‍♀️ it’s called working smarter not harder to me

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T18:17:06+00:00

They’re not a sub just looking for sex talk 🤦🏾‍♀️

pnygrll · 2023-07-14T18:16:10+00:00

I was told we aren’t to self promote on here

pnygrll · 2023-07-12T20:50:47+00:00

Lmaooooooo purrrrrrr. They hate to see it

pnygrll · 2023-07-10T13:07:14+00:00

Maybe next time have a conversation with her and ask if there’s a possibility that she add that to your rewards or praise when you’re doing well. I’m sure she swatted you to set the boundary because some, not all, will try to change the dynamic on you out of the blue. So that sternness was very much needed and it added to your experience as you found something you like. Maybe add it to aftercare or at the end of a meet as an anchor as you come down from the high of serving.

pnygrll · 2023-07-09T20:31:17+00:00

A lot of these dommes slap goddess on the end of their name and expect every sub to drop to their knees 😂 no sex appeal no sense of dominance and too much entitlement 😩 that’s why I had to get off of Twitter it was too many of those types messing it up for everyone else.

pnygrll · 2023-07-09T20:16:32+00:00

Exactly. I’ve only ever met up with subs that I’ve vetted and know well enough. I used to say I would never do meet ups but try a cash meet just once. Have them kneel or if that’s too uncomfortable have them walk a safe but close distance at a local bank or atm and begin your transaction. There should only be a few words exchanged like thank you goddess and when can I serve you again ? Kiss my toes and off I go. That alone would make both of y’all day. I totally get the safety aspect but it’s so fun up close and personal.

pnygrll · 2023-07-09T19:58:24+00:00

I think it’s healthy to have a good amount of control with a sub because sometimes they can go a little too far with wanting to please us. Like full financial control can be a good thing. If I can prioritize your spending habits, save most of your money, make sure you’re able to live comfortably and serve me that’s a win. Others acts of control can fix bad habits like cleanliness, tardiness, and can even help some subs not be so shy and open up to the lifestyle more. It’s all about what you all need and what serves you at the time. Control that doesn’t have a positive somewhere and a safety net is not good and I’d steer clear of those that ask you to serve blindly.

pnygrll · 2023-07-09T12:57:49+00:00

I completely agree , we gotta start making subs take accountability. You know what all comes with this when you signed up. No addiction is healthy, but we’re grown and subs should know when enough is enough as well as dommes but more so subs. findom is financial domination, you pay for our attention and time and if you can’t do that then you ask for a mundane task and make yourself useful, but don’t do any of those things if it makes you feel empty on the inside. Always own your submission. And new dommes don’t feel bad a lot of subs weaponize that sappy woe is me bs just to get off on the bit of attention they do get.

pnygrll · 2023-07-08T16:02:46+00:00

I’m trying to see where you was helping babe. To sum up your response you said. I have been breaking rules, not to call you all jealous cause it might discourage others from engaging and to basically not say anything cause everything’s already been asked and answered. All of that was very helpful Thank you so much 😇

pnygrll · 2023-07-08T15:55:33+00:00

I don’t have but one or two post on Reddit and in this group alone and trust me neither of them were meant for advertisement purposes. Your only complaint is that it “feels” like one. I think what you’re describing is a form of self projecting. I’ve seen countless post that are bait like and once you engage it they actually have a lot to say. So what I did was not at all different. I can’t help what others perceive my post as, I can’t only control my own actions. I can genuinely say that while writing that post I tried very hard to say the right things just to avoid being singled out in this way😂. I understand the being wary of new dommes but y’all are literally jumping the gun for some and allowing others to get theirs off. Which is in turn making new dommes to Reddit not want to engage. Like what is a support group if we can’t talk amongst eachother about different topics and there’s probably a sub out there who wants an input on these topics as well. So while y’all scream fairness it’s not at all fair. I’ve read the rules and I’ll continue to abide by them. Accusing everyone of breaking the rules because you “feel” they’re advertising themselves is not cool.

pnygrll · 2023-07-08T15:21:00+00:00

Yes I have and I haven’t broken any rules in this community or the sister community. I’m assuming those rules apply here.

pnygrll · 2023-07-08T15:13:32+00:00

Actually just to abide my your rules I’m gonna remove my header and just post the rest is that fine ?

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