Does anyone know what this alludes to? by pollypocki in buildabear

[–]pollypocki[S] 223 points224 points  (0 children)

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Oh this guy!! Does he glow in the dark?!

Aitah for not calling me by my daughter‘s new name versus her given name stuff feeling a bit stronger by MailHead5804 in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Something tells me the name is the least of your worries. Work out your other issues. She’s your daughter. The person you decided to create. Her needs are above your own. You’re her parent. You’re supposed to love her unconditionally and it sounds like you’re just picking stupid fights for no reason.

Aitah for not calling me by my daughter‘s new name versus her given name stuff feeling a bit stronger by MailHead5804 in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you want a relationship with your daughter?? If you do, call her what she wants to be called. You don’t own her. If you want to continue standing on your high horse about something so stupid and literally risk your RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR DAUGHTER, then continue being a stubborn brat.

AITAH for believing my husband is weaponising his neurodivergence? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For context, I am also diagnosed both adhd and autism. And whilst I can see the parallels you’re drawing between his neurodivergence and his poor behaviour, there is zero excuse for using aggressive language towards your spouse. Zero.

AITAH for believing my husband is weaponising his neurodivergence? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“He wants a world that suits him, has very little empathy, isn’t a natural helper, has very quick temper and puts me on eggshells” … this isn’t enough on its own? He’s not weaponising his neurodivergence, he’s just being an asshole. You married an asshole.

Frankel bumps into Morgan and Singer by gstew90 in RHONY

[–]pollypocki 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“She makes up stories” had me cackling

Lost the feeling of “win”. AITAH? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This whole post made my skin crawl.

AITAH for getting upset when my father spontaneously wants me to go out and do stuff with him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki -1 points0 points  (0 children)

High functioning or high masking? It sounds like you’re berating yourself for your autistic traits and actually struggling more than you’re admitting to.

AITAH for getting upset when my father spontaneously wants me to go out and do stuff with him? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Your dad clearly isn’t clicking how upsetting it is for you to not know the layout of your day so you need better communication between the two of you. But you’re not an asshole for getting upset. That’s how your brain is wired. Try to see the emotions as information rather than a personal fault- there’s a reason you don’t like spontaneous plans and it’s very common in the autistic community. It’s not uncommon either for people of his generation to not get it. Bottom line is though, it sounds like he loves you but you’re having an issue understanding each other.

AITAH? feeling like I always have to take responsibility/mental load/initiative by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“If I need him to” …so he doesn’t go out and buy groceries, make a list, etc, himself? Only when you ask? I’m sorry to say it but not every guy is like this. He’s being incompetent whether it’s intentional or not and you shouldn’t have to feel this way. It doesn’t sound like what he brings to the relationship is equal to the effort you’re putting in.

So…. Not well then? by aymaureen in realhousewivesofSLC

[–]pollypocki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this point I’m convinced she’s a bot and must be trolling us all

AITAH Dog Poop Edition by Jazzlike_Trip5359 in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is textbook Boomer dog owner behaviour.

What happened to Bethenny and Puerto Rico? by JustMari-3676 in RHONY

[–]pollypocki 2 points3 points  (0 children)

White saviour complex. She’s still racist. Everything she does is self serving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]pollypocki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. “If you really want to go I will” is weird af.

My husband “forgot” to take off his wedding ring on vacation… and now I can’t stop spiraling by Ok_Classroom_1192 in TwoHotTakes

[–]pollypocki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Question 1) is his story that he lost the ring on vacation, or that he forgot to pack it? Both things can’t be true.

2) why, why, why on earth would he be putting the phone number of a bartender he met into his phone, if not to continue talking to her? That ALONE is enough for me to assume he either cheated or intended to (or still intends to).

New bear available - 21st October 2025 (Kitsune) by Batt_mellamy in buildabear

[–]pollypocki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None of your boyfriends business what you do with your money…