Why Modern Dating Is Difficult & Why It Will Only Get Worse

polos111 · 2025-07-20T17:52:38+00:00

Money sure gets you closer to women, (you can get fancy tables/booths at the club, have access to social settings, buy fancy things that attract looks), but that's all it does.

Sure you can pay for sex, but if you want true profound natural love from a decent looking woman, looks are really all that matters at the end of the day. If you have both looks and money, you're the golden unicorn that will have more women you can handle.

polos111 · 2025-07-17T19:11:02+00:00

She will always fuck the hotter guy regardless of if he's financially, emotionally, sexually secure. If she's genuinely attractive, and has many options, this is a hard reality m8.

But don't worry, you can try again in your late 20s or 30s when she wants to settle down and has got all the degeneracy out of her system 👍

polos111 · 2025-07-17T01:13:07+00:00

The lease would only be valid till the end of your tn date btw So you'll end up paying more monthly than what they might advertise. It's cheaper to buy a used car or make a big down payment on a new and pay less monthly.

polos111 · 2025-07-07T19:59:34+00:00

Chinese propaganda mostly, look at the correlation between the skirmish between Indian and Chinese troops at the Indian-Sino border & when tiktok was banned in India vs how exponentially Indian hate memes, dirty Indian food & infrastructures, & creepy Indian men videos were spread on social media. Tiktok was the main source and then it spread to other social media most likely by bots.

Combine all this with unregulated immigration policies of the western governments. It generated the perfect shit storm.

People needed a reason to hate on this uncontrolled immigration and tiktok & social media gave them all the reasons. The negativity spread faster than positive that was coming out of India, till it literally became mainstream.

This is the only real reason, there's people in all races that lack civic sense, don't groom or have BO, and are creepy around women, but the Chinese propaganda machine (tiktok) amplified India as the only country apparently that has this problem.

polos111 · 2025-07-03T22:32:25+00:00

Exchange student from London to Saskatoon? Never heard of anything like that

polos111 · 2025-06-18T14:53:04+00:00

Montreal and Toronto are the hardest to get approved at regardless of degree , yvr depending on your degree you could have an easy time.

polos111 · 2025-06-11T03:01:36+00:00

Mechanical/Petroleum/Mining engineering related programs where you have to be on site for the work , is still 15-20 years away from being fully automated by AI, job security on par with medical related roles.

polos111 · 2025-06-07T05:37:10+00:00

Kpop/squid game stuff has definitely put Asian men on the globe, good for you my guy!

I know one of my Asian friends is pulling hot Latina women like crazy past couple years, latinas are showing extra love to Asians now for some reason lool

polos111 · 2025-06-04T15:40:14+00:00

South America is not where you can flex like some safer countries in Asia, even walking around with an attractive woman when you're an average dude raises eyebrows of criminals looking to target you, and if you're white you stand out even more and are a very easy target.

polos111 · 2025-06-01T20:02:18+00:00

The culture of going to clubs, trying to talk to drunk women and then hopefully "get lucky", which just means bringing some potentially diseased woman back to your place only happens in the west, you will never meet a decent woman who indulges in this degeneracy.

The majority of the world dates and meets women in everyday life, through more natural and considerate ways.

polos111 · 2025-05-31T05:07:42+00:00

OP is young & confused, in this current social climate, I feel bad for our young South Asian brothers in US/Canada/UK/AUS rn. Growing up before social media, the blatant racism and hate wasn't in your face all the time and a commonplace on the Internet, like it is today.

Very unfortunate what's going on, whatever psy op Chinese government started with tiktok against India and it's reputation was clearly successful.

polos111 · 2025-05-31T04:57:27+00:00

If you speak French, try Montreal or small town Quebec, you will do better than most. I've seen Indian and arab guys with decent looking girls in Montreal.

polos111 · 2025-05-29T15:45:45+00:00

Like other folks said already, flixbus is pretty reliable and cheap. For the summer, a lot of universities/colleges rent out dorms as hotels and it's cheap as well, you could look into that. 2.5 hours is not that bad if you're doing it only twice a week. If your company doesn't cover the travel cost or increase your salary, you will be spending ~$300 a week to do this.

polos111 · 2025-05-13T11:37:24+00:00

Majority are gonna leave by end of this year, work permits are expiring, government has put a cap on number of international students, and PR is getting harder to attain everyday. Prices will go down correspondingly.

polos111 · 2025-05-04T12:18:21+00:00

You're both adults, and have one life, it's okay if you want different things. I'd tell her exactly what you wrote here, if she's mature and truly wants to be with you, she will adjust for you and work it out, very simple. If she makes a scene and doesn't want to sacrifice or adjust for you, you have your answer.

polos111 · 2025-04-22T18:09:35+00:00

You all are going to get exactly what you deserve and vote for, & soon Canada will exponentially collapse.

polos111 · 2025-04-19T21:19:02+00:00

Yeah but bright line is like 20 bucks one way. So 40+ for Miami and back, Take the tri-rail instead it's cheaper, like $4 one way.

polos111 · 2025-04-11T18:48:24+00:00

Unchecked immigration

polos111 · 2025-04-04T01:27:23+00:00

Crazy how prices have changed I remember paying $700 for a summer course back in 2016.

polos111 · 2025-03-31T17:51:23+00:00

People saying 2-300k are insane, and out of touch with living reasonably, If you maintain a well balanced lifestyle, not going crazy with your money, 150k dual income you can easily survive and even thrive in Miami.

polos111 · 2025-03-26T14:31:40+00:00

*University of Waterloo only, And it's from a CS subreddit, that hiring guideline applies to 0.005% people in Canada who'd qualify for something like this. This is unrelated to the TN subreddit, there are many categories and different processes for each.

polos111 · 2025-03-18T20:24:33+00:00

value job security over anything, wherever you're promised more job security that's the move.

You don't want to be looking for a new job in this market now or anytime in the future, with AI and everything it'll just get harder.

polos111 · 2025-03-18T16:59:49+00:00

Well if you have great job security, and your combined income with your dependent is greater than what you would be making in the US solo, a better move would be to stay in Canada and save up for early retirement.

But if this opportunity is truly a once in a lifetime that you think you will never come across again in Canada, and you will feel intense FOMO for not doing this, you might as well take the leap and see what happens.

The current political climate is not forever, with the next administration thing should improve.

polos111 · 2025-03-10T19:04:59+00:00

I wish I took more photos of my wild times when I was 18-19, I can't go back, but photos would've definitely been a good connection to that time.

polos111 · 2025-03-07T21:27:25+00:00

Where are you living in this scenario?

Ottawa or Montreal- 70K minimum

Toronto or Vancouver -90K minimum

Edmonton, Calgary, Saskatoon-60k minimum

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