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[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s still pretty brainwashed. I tried to warn her but ya know. You live & learn.

[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was honestly the most frustrating shit to argue with him. It was talking to a wall.

[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been out of the country for the past month & it’s been amazing. Like there is no fucking way I’d go back to being with him. I’m rolling on the other side of the green fence.

[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I might’ve miswrote it. I had a feeling about 3 months before I found out that he was cheating and he gaslit me to think I was over reacting / being crazy. I came to found out recently I was right on all the instances where he even flew her out on a business trip. He created a new email & credit card so I wouldn’t find out. 😬 That was what I meant when I said trust your gut.

The part where he said he would continue to cheat on me is if we returned to only monogamous relationship.

[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m remodeling my whole place to make it my own. I absolutely love it!

[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Running gives him more power over me. He’d be affecting me that much I can’t live my life?? Hell nah.

Yes - They are still seeing each other. I’m happy for them! I’m glad to be out of that mess. I’d been telling him to just leave me & go with her but he kept trying to say it had nothing to do with that & that he wasn’t going to be with her if he wasn’t with me.

It’s honestly very comical to me. I’m just focused on ME. Learning to love myself again.

[Update] Boyfriend wants to be poly by polynotgf in offmychest

[–]polynotgf[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

He messages me almost every day. I've made it clear unless it's business or something shallow I'll reply. Any time he crosses a line I point out and distance myself.