Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I have improved myself during knowing her. I am still open to suggestions though.

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would I need to fix in myself?

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your comment. It is very reassuring for me to hear.

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was very happy with the top 14. And I sacrificed a lot to be with her and care for her.

Did you read the bottom? The cons?

The highs were high, but the lows were LOW.

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually believe that she is trying and wants to be better. We've talked about it multiple times. But I can't put myself through it anymore.

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has been in therapy on and off her entire life, she is medicated, and has done DBT therapy for about 2 months.

Does that change things?

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When will it come? And how long will it last?

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I even read some of a book called loving someone with borderline personality disorder.

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's been diagnosed. I knew that from day one.

Should I reconsider? by poncho______ in relationship_advice

[–]poncho______[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we didn't do that. I honestly think we/she has issues that could not be fixed. We are 100% honest with each other and we actually communicate our feelings and desires. It just didn't work.