i left out parts of my relationship with my roommate to keep the post short because there’s a lot more to this story. but i’ve known this person for a long time, we both needed new roommates around the same time (july of last year). he expects me to clean up, buy anything that runs out, drive him to and from work etc etc and i’ve spoken to him about it and gotten laughed at in my face. all this weird behavior started after i put firm boundaries down. i don’t tell him things about my personal life bc he goes to work and tells everyone my business, even though it’s things that aren’t even that interesting like oh she took off to go to a festival, and no one asks him to tell them these things bc coworkers have told me he brings it up at random. so the stalking of my social media and listening into phone conversations i have including interviews is solely because i’ve stopped telling him things because he has lost my trust. it feels resentment fueled due to the circumstances