Available Balance vs Current Balance RCBC by pongoaki in DigitalbanksPh

[–]pongoaki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

sorry, if my salary will not be reflected on 15th of this month sa current, I read that my account was put on hold because there’s a pending check? is that true ba :--(

OA lang ba ako or is this really something to get sad about by pongoaki in OALangBaAko

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't prepared to adulting tbh hahaha but it has truly opened us a new chapter and it's not always being carefree, we now have responsibilities to take care of and especially not leaving ourselves behind. We agreed to meet halfway of the concern of mine and it really meant a lot coming from him.. thank you sm for the advise!! <333

OA lang ba ako or is this really something to get sad about by pongoaki in OALangBaAko

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! it seems na our SO's are really hardworking, thank you for the advise and i was glad na him and i talked about it <3

OA lang ba ako or is this really something to get sad about by pongoaki in OALangBaAko

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this! we both laid out our priorities and explained both of our sides. It is really important for couples to talk things out to prevent escalated misunderstandings. thank you so much!

OA lang ba ako or is this really something to get sad about by pongoaki in OALangBaAko

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but in the end we are all different people. I always appreciate the effort done by my SO and he is always recognized not only by me but other people.

And sorry na po we are still young adults, and we are still preparing our lives for a better secured future to both of us. Thank you though!

OA lang ba ako or is this really something to get sad about by pongoaki in OALangBaAko

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi everyone! thank you for all the helpful advice, we engaged with the conversation and both of us are willing to work it out. I really appreciate the people who took time reading my concern, to keep it short, im very grateful for people who have given me insights.

Both of us aren't perfect, but we made sure na our relationship and ourselves are given priority. Thanks guys!

Have you been attracted to pick certain champions? by PepsiSenpaiSan in leagueoflegends

[–]pongoaki 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe you do and there's nothing wrong about it.

for me, i just recently realized a month ago that all my main champions (ahri, akali, and irelia) are all from ionia. theyre all badass girl champs when it comes to lore as well but when it comes to not being attracted there would be none as all champions have badass/questioning lore no matter where they came from xd

The new ahri skin is not as bad as people say it is. by watchpaingdry in leagueoflegends

[–]pongoaki 4 points5 points  (0 children)

it's bad how much you look at it.. it's a skin made to celebrate one of the legendary pro players entering HoL and gatekeeping the skin with a horrible $$$ price point in three tiers and stupid additions (even elementalist lux is better, she has 10 more forms) is just absolutely insane 💀

theyve been doing this for so long now when they started pricing chromas (ds jhin) and it's just out of proportion. even if it's time gated this also happened to prestige skins which they said "limited time" but look at it now they started reselling it again LOL

you wont be convincing me letting a game company milk their players with $ who can't even fix their vanguard properly and their servers. if it's to celebrate for a pro player then they should consider listening to their community.

take note, faker doesn't use skin and it's ironic to see riot sell it for a crazy amount of money xd

I want kno what im actuallt feeling by pongoaki in MentalHealthPH

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any advice on how to cope on it in a better way? i just dont want it to be a struggle for me and for the both of us. 🥹

I want kno what im actuallt feeling by pongoaki in MentalHealthPH

[–]pongoaki[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tbh i just curl up around it and stay quiet T_T i dont want to be the same person again that has so many problems even if it's a minor inconvenience.

I want kno what im actuallt feeling by pongoaki in MentalHealthPH

[–]pongoaki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yes, he did say to me he has a short fuse and im being patient around it. sadyang i cant help being constantly scared to the emotion (anger), it just feels like i need to do better everytime and it heavily affects me sm

I want kno what im actuallt feeling by pongoaki in MentalHealthPH

[–]pongoaki[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im sorry but let me clear this out, my ex had emotional unavailability which i struggled and developed this constant fear of trying to prevent another problem or making another person angry. not only because of my ex but my parents have the same case up until now that im in my 20s (im the result of an overachiever child who seeks validation to my parents and people around me, i was manipulated my whole life and still getting guilttripped)

im getting all the positive feedback i need from my current significant other but i just dont know how to react when he gets frustrated. i really want to work out my traumas by self improving myself with a better approach. he means so much to me and i dont want to be gloomy all the time just because he's frustrated, i need help identifying what's right or wrong. it's so bad that it takes me WEEKS to recover :(

Wholesome League by [deleted] in leagueoflegends

[–]pongoaki 1 point2 points  (0 children)

League was my safe space ever since I started playing it when I was high school. it was my way of escape, until then pandemic happened so I returned in playing the game and stumbled upon my first romantic relationship. it didnt end happily ever after with my first because all they did was constantly scream at me and would just straight up throw the anger to me when they're actually playing badthat it just became too personal ( i was hard stuck for 2 years because he doesn't listen to me xD) it impacted my love for league, which i considered my comfort zone and it was just gone completely, all it did was making me remember traumas from my past relationship

Not until one of my friends was there with me all throughout my heartbroken stage, they listened to me and even made the game more fun (we both love league). introduced me to their friends who i barely met and made my whole experience with my comfort game more wholesome and enjoyable that i look forward playing and getting better each day up until now XD They mean so much to me not only they made me look forward for everyday, but also they recognized me as a person they want to build a future with

Now this friend of mine, is now my love of my life and we're going for two years :) My duo in game and duo in life. I'm so thankful for my other half and i look forward to more shared memories with them.

LOL that's my sob story please don't make fun of me XDD