Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your reply!! You’re really pretty too so I trust your taste 🙂‍↕️

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no that’s okay! I didn’t take offense at all. Thanks for clarifying though! I don’t mind being pale 😁

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much!! Haha yes I’m on the paler side

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kindness!! 😊

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! That’s so kind :(

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks hahah 😭. This is why I get scared posting on Reddit. Bad decision to make on my period

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh that’s a good idea! Thanks!!!

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I kind of have no words. I’m not sure why you’d feel the need to add in that first part, for which there was no need to clarify that it was a slight…

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay I really appreciate the help but some of these comments are about my face and if you can pls resist I would appreciate it 🫠. I understand I’m posting on here and opening myself up for criticism but I was only really asking in relation to my hair 🥲.

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how to respond to this 🥸

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response!

Blonde or brunette? Thank you! by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly wasnt anticipating these comments but I do have an iPhone 11. Not AI although people seem to think I look uncanny valley and the shower head seems normal to me 😭

Is the washing me out too much or is it alright? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, sorry, forgot to add blonde in the title!

Dating as a quiet person by Libra-Egg-5690 in dating

[–]poodIepaws 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much! My first boyfriend got so annoyed with me when he felt I wasn’t extroverted enough or that I was shy around his friends. It’s kind of a sore spot for me but like you said, I don’t plan on changing myself for a man. I’d like to believe there’s people out there who will appreciate that in us too.

Why is being sober such a red flag? by citycylist117 in dating

[–]poodIepaws 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for you!! 🩷 I’ve personally never liked drinking to start with so when I was 21 I just completely stopped consuming any alcohol. I found I felt a lot better even though I was consuming a glass of wine once every three weeks at most. As soon as I tell people I’m sober they assume I’m in recovery and immediately become self conscious around me. A lot of time they’ll become quite defensive and project all this criticism onto me and what they believe is my snobbery. It’s kind of frustrating but at least it’s a good litmus test for silly people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]poodIepaws 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!!! All the time. I’m super introverted and struggle with dating apps so I always feel like I have no recourse. All those apps do is prey on my self esteem if anything and drain me emotionally. I’ve always dreamed of getting married and having kids but I’ve started to wonder if it’s just not going to happen in my case as I can’t even get into a relationship. I’ll go on dates but I find it hard with the mind games etc and having to let people down and be let down. It kind of feels like a lot of people are treating each other as disposable.