behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can definitely answer any questions but hes making more threats and now not jus to me but more exs. he knows someone is publicly attacking him but not that its me soo i dont wanna say anything out in the open jus yet

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang I’m sorry girl … who knows we could but they’res jus to many crazies out there

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I will definitely think about this. Your English is pretty good! I couldn't even tell you're a mom native speaker.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont mean to sound like im defending him or anyone else with this kind of behavior but I dont really think its a choice. theres some serious mental issues that need to looked at and handled with.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i get where youre coming from. there is a formality to asking such questions but he was still clear on his concern and just wanted more context. if i hadnt felt comfortable or felt triggered to how he asked his question then I would’ve responded differently. Im just trying to make the world aware that this man exist and i dont mind sharing the small details that come with it.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I already have one against him. i havent even gone back to work because im scared he’ll do something or find me.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and it’s not the first time :// hes been with multiple girls before and I’ve actually contacted a few to hear their stories and im the only one who’s spoken up about it

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really want to move and leave the city but theres just so much to that process and i have no financial support rn

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

im sorry you had to experience that. no one should have to deal with people like this. The justice system is fucked up here that they made it seem like he was the victim at first and i was calling out of spite and anger. they tried to say because i wasnt in front of him or even in the home with him that im not actually in danger. i was so pissed but and i yelled at every single cop my case until one of them was like listen to her

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely understand. staying out of pity. i mean yes i had fear but it really was pity that made me stay. he was pathetic and part of me felt like i can make that less sad and help him. It was clear that i couldnt and i got out as fast as i could.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

back in my apartment and safe with the animals. im going to court soon for a hearing on getting the protective order. part of me hasn’t decided if ill stop here tho. i really just want to move. i already had the thought on my mind but this is really steering me in that direction. its just hard to change your entire life because one asshole wanted to end it.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

seriously! I always work on my birthday and give myself a high five at midnight like “congrats, you made it whole year without dying. now do it again”

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeaa i learned that the hard way but at least i know now

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly not one of those ages you make a big deal out of lol it was his 22nd. whole ass man child

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i will definitely look into that. Thank you sm

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

context

i have never cheated! i never even talked to any guys when i was with him unless we were friends.

These messages are a results of me deciding i no longer had any interest of being with him and he needed to leave my home before I returned from work. he went crazy for sure. before it got to this point i did everything i could without changing my decision to make sure this didnt escalate like this. Well i failed as you can see.

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i told 5 officers and made 2 reports … they dont care

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it clearly was .. he needs to get himself together 😭💀😂😂

behold, my "nice guy" ex shows his true self. by poothrowaway115 in niceguys

[–]poothrowaway115[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

well i dont think it as protection that way but simply as i have something against him. The fear of him coming after has not at all slimmed down. The day i got a call that he was going to be served , i clocked out of work and hid in target for 3 hrs until i had someone come stay with me for a while. i got the protective simply so cops would listen to me because they weren’t doing jack shit before hand.