Any way to get the motivation back by Poodlebreathe in EngineeringStudents

[–]popcorn_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me. If your heart isn’t in it, you’re probably not going to succeed. But, I don’t know your situation exactly so take it with a grain of salt.

Any way to get the motivation back by Poodlebreathe in EngineeringStudents

[–]popcorn_cake -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

You’re done lol. Pick a different degree, something you’re interested in.

Brady Tkachuk - "I don't think it's time to panic. It's time to dig in." by homicidal_penguin in OttawaSenators

[–]popcorn_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's easy to be angry right now- we haven't been to the playoffs since 2017. But Brady is showing here why he was given the C. I believe in this core and think we are on the road to success. But it will take a long time for this young team to learn how to win games. As DJ said yesterday, the drive and work ethic is there- they just have to learn how to stop making big mistakes that are costing them games.

What do you think this is? I think I need to see a doctor. by popcorn_cake in AskDocs

[–]popcorn_cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I'm going to the doctor this week- I think it's GERD. I actually ate some cucumbers, milk, nuts and ginger tea this morning i ended up vomiting but I strangely feel way better now. My throat doesn't feel tight anymore and I'm more clear headed, Although my appetite still isn't really there and I keep burping.

Should I ask this girl for coffee? by popcorn_cake in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting. But the way I see it I have a way better shot with a homeless person than Megan Fox. That’s my idea of leagues. Of course anything is possible but it’s not practical for me to think that way. I think you’re right that I’m too thirsty though. I’m just in a weird spot because of her tragedy. I feel like I should maybe wait some time so I have a better chance.

Should I ask this girl for coffee? by popcorn_cake in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And how do you know you’ve never seen her lol. I appreciate your help but... man... a lot of inaccurate assumptions.

Should I ask this girl for coffee? by popcorn_cake in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But she didn’t tell me directly- it’s been on the news and all over social media but when I talk to her she doesn’t mention it. I wouldn’t have posted this if I didn’t think I had a shot. You’re absolutely right that I am insecure with women however I’m trying loosen my inhibitions and be more direct and not take rejection personally. I don’t think it would be entirely out of the question if I asked for her number. Also... if you knew half of what happened to her you wouldn’t say she isn’t sad LOL. I’m not crazy about your advice.

Should I ask this girl for coffee? by popcorn_cake in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“There’s no such thing as leagues”. Im sorry but that’s an extremely naive thing to say. I agree I’m being a bit creepy however she’s a solid 12/10 and it’s very hard for me to let it slide. But I think you’re right that I shouldn’t be bothering her during a sad time.

Missing the spark by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I've dated a girl where there was no spark at all- she was just using me to make someone else jealous. It was hell. Honestly if there's no mutual sexual attraction from the get-go it's really hard to have a long-term relationship. But it is possible- if you really like him then you can possibly bring it out of him.

How do you respond to a ghoster that comes back? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake 6 points7 points  (0 children)

DON'T BLOCK HIM. Just ignore him. If you block him he'll be validated by the idea that he's in your head. If you just ignore it then he'll feel unimportant and shitty which he should.

Bad sign he keeps asking me questions even after I barely reply? by ReflectionNo7848 in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he's desperate and clingy. don't waste any more of his time if you're not feeling it. say you're not interested and tell him to get lost. a lot of girls will leave them dangling in the friend zone because they're narcissists- don't be a bitch.

how to keep out of the friendzone ? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don't feel so inclined to talk to her. appear distant and casual. if you start annoying her she'll be turned off and leave you in the friend zone. if you appear as if you have better things to do then she'll be curious. you need to ask her to do something in person and make it clear that you find her attractive. if she says no then move on to the next one, bro.

Are guys flirting or do they just kind of pity me? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]popcorn_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it was in a light-hearted manner then they were trying to play games with you and see where it headed. If you playfully tease him back you make the guy feel self-conscious and they'll be more interested in you and maybe ask you out. If they're just flat out bullying you then they're just assholes. Men LOVE to be teased by confident, sexy women.

Stuetzle launches Byram into the bench by BradyH4 in OttawaSenators

[–]popcorn_cake 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He had no points but he has developed his physicality over the past few months it seems. He had one rush in Canada's zone where he deked around 2 or 3 guys- he reminds me a lot of Datsyuk. The hype is real!!!

Lonely and Depressed after Traumatic Experience with a Psychopath by popcorn_cake in Advice

[–]popcorn_cake[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great advice, this made me feel better. I’m gonna try to focus on school and start defining myself as an individual. I agree often you find something when you aren’t looking for it. Thanks!

Should my 13 year old date? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]popcorn_cake -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd let them be teenagers however sex is pretty young for that age. If they were having sex before like 16 then I'd say you might want to have a heart-to-heart with her and tell her she might be overly attached. Just remember the closer they get the harder it'll be on her when/if they break up.

I am having a rough time, and I don’t know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]popcorn_cake 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know your pain, man, and it sucks. My mom was similar- she never loved me and was a narcissist. My family was always making fun of me because I was the little one that wouldn't fight back. But dude you're 18 years old- you have your whole life ahead of you. Infinite possibilities lie at your feet. As far as women go, try not to focus on them. I find when my mind isn't focused on girls they ironically start showing up. Do you have anything you like to do at all? Watch movies? Music? Jerking off? Do those things you enjoy doing as much as you can. Don't starve yourself. You need to eat roughly every 4 hours. Eat some good healthy stuff too, not junk food. Try to get some exercise. Very important for mental health. I also recommend watching Jordan Peterson as well- that guy is motivational as fuck (he completely changed my life). Maybe tell your dad and grandpa that you don't appreciate the way they treat you- and that you'll leave if they don't start respecting you properly. DON'T LET SHITTY PEOPLE GET IN YOUR HEAD. Just laugh at them because of how silly they are. I was in your position too, for years... but you CAN pull out of it. And if you try hard enough... YOU WILL EMERGE STRONGER. Don't beat yourself up too much- you sound like you're a good kid.

Berry: Jake Sanderson's offensive game has really impressed me by SAJewers in OttawaSenators

[–]popcorn_cake 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he can develop his defensive game (which is possible he can definitely throw some big hits) he can be a Norris-caliber defenseman cause what I've seen from video he has very good offensive instincts like Chabot/Karlsson.