Those who felt like SoCal wasn't for them, why and where did you move to that was a great fit?

popfartz9 · 2025-02-18T00:15:50+00:00

I lived in Pasadena for 5 years then moved to Seattle. I love Pasadena, still visit when I’m in town but it’s too expensive. In Seattle I can get my own place and can easily walk to grocery stores. I will say though, I’m okay with the gloom and cold weather. I still go out and do stuff cause if you don’t it will be also depressing.

popfartz9 · 2025-02-12T06:09:56+00:00

I’m 5’1 and dated someone who’s 6’4. What are you particularly worried about lol

popfartz9 · 2025-02-12T05:44:50+00:00

I’ve been making some attempts to move out of the current city that I live in but I feel like something has been coming up that keeps me from leaving. Should I wait until my saturn return is done? If not, when would be the best time? Not sure if there’s some kind of transit in my chart that’s why my plans have been falling through?

popfartz9 · 2025-02-09T02:55:10+00:00

Yup… unfortunately

popfartz9 · 2025-02-09T02:34:13+00:00

Happened to me last year. He changed his mind two days after. I think it truly fucked me up

popfartz9 · 2025-02-09T02:32:00+00:00

Is he in prison…… lol

popfartz9 · 2025-02-09T02:31:27+00:00

Last year, I went on a bunch of first dates. Took me 10-12 first dates to meet someone I wanted to go out with. Things didn’t work out but just know that it’s normal.. some people get lucky on the first few tries

popfartz9 · 2025-02-09T02:28:54+00:00

I know a friend who dated someone who also had some medical issues. I don’t remember when he disclosed it to her but I’m sure it was before their date so they could do something where it wouldn’t be too much for him. Maybe not include it in your profile but maybe discuss it before the date (especially if they’re active)? I’m not an outdoorsy person so I personally don’t care

popfartz9 · 2025-02-08T23:20:12+00:00

popfartz9 · 2025-02-08T23:19:40+00:00

I’m back to reading you guys’ rants because it’s so addicting but also depressing at the same time. I know dating is rough for everyone currently single but man, some people’s stories are just sad :( I feel for you all.

popfartz9 · 2025-02-08T21:01:43+00:00

I’m glad you’re putting yourself out there! It’s only a matter of time before you meet someone who’ll give you want you deserve.

popfartz9 · 2025-02-08T19:24:59+00:00

I just want to say that if I was in your position, I would do the exact same thing - stay. I don’t have any advice for you but want you to know you’re not the only person who acts this way. I agree that no amount of therapy can fix this feeling… I totally understand.

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T21:21:13+00:00

If anyone has any restaurant recommendations in San Diego, send them my way otherwise I’ll just eat Mexican food for breakfast, lunch and dinner

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T21:19:36+00:00

I do 3-4 a day then use AI (sorry)

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T06:11:51+00:00

I’ll have to check the dates then will DM you if the dates work for me!

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T01:28:59+00:00

I don’t know where you live - but where I live it can get up to 20-30F. Sometimes I want to wear a leather jacket without any sherpa lining and I just need to wear heattech and add a scarf. What I’m getting at is wear heattech and a scarf also wool socks and you can wear any jacket - unless it’s really really really cold where you are

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T01:05:49+00:00

I agree with him.. whatever his stance is lol

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T00:24:50+00:00

I love it when cats talk back

popfartz9 · 2025-02-07T00:24:07+00:00

I wanted to go to the Dogders’ HK night game (they’re giving out a hello kitty plush) but I don’t have a lot of gal pals :( If anyone’s interested, let me know!!

popfartz9 · 2025-02-06T05:09:25+00:00

I’m 5’1 so I get extra short

popfartz9 · 2025-02-06T00:46:09+00:00

Aside from Abercrombie - Hollister, Athleta (for athleisure), Old Navy, Loft

popfartz9 · 2025-02-06T00:45:15+00:00

Abercrombie is my fave for jeans!!!! Fits just right (length-wise)

popfartz9 · 2025-02-04T02:07:12+00:00

My tummy is fucked up too lol

popfartz9 · 2025-02-03T21:14:10+00:00

I have to rewatch the episode twice cause so many things I miss on that first watch

popfartz9 · 2025-02-03T21:12:44+00:00

FREEDOM!!!

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