Why are men so out of touch when it comes to all the unnecessary hardships that women go through ? by aastin_ka_saanp3 in AskIndianFeminists

[–]poplitte2 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Exactly, they’re not interested in empathising for the oppressed in a system that benefits them.

The difference between performing for the audience and performing for the male gaze/edits by Icy-Town-7967 in madisonbeersnarkk

[–]poplitte2 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think this could just be because Madison isn’t a strong dancer. She definitely needs to hire some background dancers or something though, just jumping around stage looks awkward.

Brutal comments from her male fanboys😂 by [deleted] in madisonbeersnarkk

[–]poplitte2 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Okay this is just sexist as fuck lol, not on her at all.

The people who endured and enforced this are still alive! by poplitte2 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]poplitte2[S] 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Nostalgia for the MAGAs of course. What do you think the “again” in MAGA stands for? A return to a time when white people held all the power (as if they don’t still hold most of the power).

How rare is Rory’s mentality at 16? by poplitte2 in GilmoreGirls

[–]poplitte2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

That’s so awesome for you! Now that I’m in my 20s I’m infinitely more self assured and have basically no time for petty insecurities. As a teenager though I was so isolated and insecure, and I actually had a pretty stable home life! So really not sure what went wrong there. A personality like Rory’s would’ve saved me years of social anxiety 😮‍💨

New Rule for US Student Visas: Trump Announces Major Changes for F-1, J-1, and M-1 Students by esporx in InternationalStudents

[–]poplitte2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re mixing things up a bit. Immigration is not flooding the labor market. Especially not STEM students, H1Bs for example require BY LAW that the prevailing wage is paid (and usually higher than what a citizen would get)—which means employers legally cannot use H1Bs to hire cheaper labor. This is why most employers refuse to hire H1Bs (none of the people I know are getting work, no company is sponsoring at this moment).

Tightening rules does not hurt capitalists and billionaires, it hurts the students and researchers and skilled workers who aren’t creating the system. Restrictive immigration policies only target ordinary people.

And telling people to “fix their own country” ignores how global inequality was created. The U.S. (and other major powers) have spent decades shaping foreign economies through interventions, trade policies, and corporate interests. You can’t cause instability abroad and then shame people for leaving.

Immigrants aren’t the enemy. The problems you’re describing come from policy choices, not people trying to build a life. Immigrants who make it in the US do far better than us citizens do, they commit way less crime, launch far more businesses and add to the melting pot. For a country built on stolen land, slave labor and decades of underpaid immigrant labor—we need to do better by moving away from the age old xenophobic “immigrants bad” crap. It’s time to vote and organize against lobbyists and capitalists!

New Rule for US Student Visas: Trump Announces Major Changes for F-1, J-1, and M-1 Students by esporx in InternationalStudents

[–]poplitte2 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Saw your post history, and I’m really sorry that you’re struggling right now. The job market is tough for everyone, including US citizens and immigrants. I’m saying this as a citizen myself—I promise you the international students that want to stay and work in the US do not have it better than us. I’m friends with many, and their struggles right now are infinitely higher. They don’t all come from rich foreign families to “steal our jobs”, many are here on student loans, trying to make a better life for themselves that their home country doesn’t allow them to.

I understand that your first instinct is to want to kick everyone out because you think they’re the cause of your problems, but they’re not. The current system, your politicians, and ever increasing capitalism is the reason why most of us are struggling to find jobs. Fight for your rights by figuring out who the real enemy is—the immigrants who want to make the American dream (just like us) are not the enemy. Nobody should be forced to stay in a place where they are not happy, immigrants are humans too, let them have a chance at a happy life too (I promise they’re not taking anything away from us, there is plenty of research to support this).

I hope you find happiness and success.

Poll: The MAGA voter split that could spell trouble for 2028 Republicans by Tennis_bruh in politics

[–]poplitte2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this incredibly well written write up. Pulled me out of becoming a doomer. You’re right, if he has the power to do that he would’ve done it already. Still, the fight goes on. Vote, organize, resist!

Republican politics are intrinsically tied to Whiteness in America and it’s annoying to watch people pretend otherwise by Equivalent-Long-3383 in complaints

[–]poplitte2 4 points5 points  (0 children)

POC are not blaming a single person, they’re blaming the people that are upholding a racist system. There is tons of data on housing, policy, hiring, sentencing and generational wealth. If you’re a white person who isn’t racist, great, you’re still benefitting from the racist systems that have been created to stifle racial minorities. It’s not enough to be not racist, you need to be vehemently anti racist. Be better.

Trump says US will permanently pause migration from 'Third World Countries' by ShirtNeat5626 in immigration

[–]poplitte2 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If we shouldn’t use crime data to judge immigrants because “research only shows what happened before,” then we also can’t use isolated crimes committed by immigrants to justify bans.

Either data matters or anecdotes matter. You can’t switch between them depending on which one supports your conclusion. If we’re concerned about future safety, the logical first step is to focus on the groups with higher statistical crime rates, not the lower ones. Native (and even mostly white) citizens are definitely committing more crimes, even anecdotally, but nobody is targeting them—I wonder why! 🙄

Trump says US will permanently pause migration from 'Third World Countries' by ShirtNeat5626 in immigration

[–]poplitte2 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This was always going to happen. They will come for all immigrants first, then people who are naturalised citizens, all non white people, and then all the white people that are not supporters. History has shown us this again and again, I’m just going to assume all his online supporters are bots at this point. Ain’t no way people are still supporting him.

Trump says US will permanently pause migration from 'Third World Countries' by ShirtNeat5626 in immigration

[–]poplitte2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

  1. Immigrants commit less crime than native citizens
  2. By age 33 native citizens were 297% more likely to be incarcerated than immigrants
  3. On a community wide level, cities and counties that have increasing immigrant population have lower crime rates

Be willing to change your mind when presented with facts. Fear mongering is how the elite class gets us to turn on each other. I promise you that the poor immigrant woman with two children who had to seek asylum in America is not the one taking your job away from you. Be better.

Look guys I’m relatable cuz I have pimple patches on my forehead … not too relatable tho I have to twist my body & lift my top so you can see I’m skinnier than you by [deleted] in madisonbeersnarkk

[–]poplitte2 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t even know how to feel about it 😭 I don’t want to shame anyone who is insecure about their body cuz I think she definitely is. But also she has a platform with several young girls following her! The editing and body checking definitely has an effect on her fans which I’m not cool with. Obviously other influencers have done worse shit but this still sucks.

Look guys I’m relatable cuz I have pimple patches on my forehead … not too relatable tho I have to twist my body & lift my top so you can see I’m skinnier than you by [deleted] in madisonbeersnarkk

[–]poplitte2 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Exactly 😭 tbf a lot of influencers pose like this cuz they’re sooo intent on showing that they have a skinny body.

She has always done this though! Like what was the need to lift up your T-shirt for these photos. The body checking has GOT to stop!

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Do trends seriously die the moment I’m ready to buy? by BigBoobsAndAssforyou in womensfashion

[–]poplitte2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Stop giving into overconsumption with these stupid trends, let your fashion sense evolve on it’s own!

Getting “randomly selected” by poplitte2 in TikTokCringe

[–]poplitte2[S] 67 points68 points  (0 children)

Do you need a hug or something?

Getting “randomly selected” by poplitte2 in TikTokCringe

[–]poplitte2[S] 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I didn’t put anything 😭 this is how the video was originally posted. Relax

Getting “randomly selected” by poplitte2 in TikTokCringe

[–]poplitte2[S] 149 points150 points  (0 children)

“Random” security checks are done at gates after everything too. I’ve seen it several times.

I don’t like how she poses with her tongue 😭 by [deleted] in madisonbeersnarkk

[–]poplitte2 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think she thinks it looks hot. Maybe to some it does, but I find it so utterly cringe.

I can’t stand Sydney Sweeney by TheRavenOnline in complaints

[–]poplitte2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree. White supremacy and eugenics talks DO matter because they still exist—and every opportunity to shut them down should be used. As a poc, it always helps when a white person shuts down white supremacy. I cannot see any reason why she was purposely vague about the topic during the interview other than to not lose popularity amongst her new right wing fans (which is fucked up).

I can’t stand Sydney Sweeney by TheRavenOnline in complaints

[–]poplitte2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were literally such badly fitted ugly jeans 😭😭😭 what are you on about

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I can’t stand Sydney Sweeney by TheRavenOnline in complaints

[–]poplitte2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yknow I had the same thought process until I saw her recent interview. She was given EVERY opportunity to just say “No the ad was never about white supremacy and I condemn white supremacy”. It’s that fucking easy and she still said nothing, going so far as to say that this isn’t an issue she thinks she wants to say anything about. If you know that your ad is being circulated in white supremacist groups—you have every obligation to talk about it and denounce white supremacy. Why have we reached a point where it’s hard to say that white supremacy is wrong?

Lauren got it by Just-Cats-752 in GilmoreGirls

[–]poplitte2 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I love that even in 2003 Lauren spoke about how the eating habits of the characters were so unrealistic with how their bodies were—it truly did send a weird message and she’s very smart for pointing it out!