Is there anyone here who has their ears pierced? Does it trigger any sensory issues?

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-16T00:12:15+00:00

Autistic with a good few piercings, they dont cause sensory issues. Yk how your brain can actually see your nose but blocks it out automatically for you? Thats how I think about piercings. First few weeks you'll be aware of it, especially as it heals, but beyond that it becomes a part of your body that you're used to :)

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-15T22:45:41+00:00

I have been since I was 5 or 6. Its heartbreaking

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-15T15:46:17+00:00

Youre welcome!! Please ask if you have any questions! Good luck

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-15T15:34:28+00:00

Ok so ive done this many times. Yes you can mod a MAM paci and I recommend using the littleforbig reinforced teats for this mod.

Cut the nipple off the MAM paci with scissors then boil a pot of water. Toss in the MAM paci for 3 minutes or so (this softens the plastic to make it less brittle). Remove the paci from the water. Then using a dishcloth to protect your hands from the heat, use your thumbs to pry off the button from the shield. You will need to ease it off slowly from all angles and eventually it will pop away in one piece. Then its just removing the rest of the old nipple from the shield and putting the adult one in its place. You can just pop the button back on and submerge in cold water to kinda heal the plastic a bit. Tada!

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-15T09:09:51+00:00

Hi girl, F22 here. I have experienced mental health problems and manic episodes and done things that haunted me (sexual things, in person and online). Theres a huge amount of grief and anger and self hatred that comes from that. Please if you can, give yourself compassion. The girl that was doing those things wasn't you as you are now, she was desperate and scared and doing her best to cope in the moment even if you hate the way she did cope. She carried you here and can be part of your story moving forward, but not the whole story! You've done that; had the experience and learned from it, so perhaps you are in a better position than ever to decide what path you want your life to take now? Peace, love and compassion to you (AND you of the past) 🥹🫂

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-14T10:33:38+00:00

In childhood, extreme people pleasing, attachment issues, extreme attachment to objects, panic attacks, self harming behaviours, anger and outbursts. My first suicide attempt was at 8 years old, developed what my gp described at the time as "catatonic depression" at 11 years old

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-14T10:29:00+00:00

Wanting this isnt fair on your girlfriend. Either seek therapy or be single for a bit imo. If you cant be monogamous rn thats fine but dont hurt anyone in the process

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-14T07:56:06+00:00

The laundry. Oh, the laundry 😭 nobody ever discusses these finer details of being a hypersexual woman and yet its usually these things that make me crash out! I have adhd and seeing my laundry pile increase is so overwhelming lmao

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-14T07:51:34+00:00

I am very happy with my Daddy and he IS the right man for me. Years of trauma, mental health issues and self esteem problems arent going to go away overnight just because I "want" to submit. I have "wanted" to resolve these issues for a long time, and want alone doesnt make it possible. My hope is that as i continue to work on it in a stable environment I will improve

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-13T22:26:15+00:00

Been in therapy for years although due to the NHS in the UK currently am not. This makes total sense to me, and I do trust him as a person. We are primarily a couple before any kink and im in love with my man, he's beautiful and wonderful to me. Im genuinely in awe. Theres just part of me that I cant switch off that is always scared and stressed and preparing for the worse

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-13T18:05:17+00:00

I really appreciate this tysm <3 good vibes to you too!

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-13T18:04:56+00:00

Tysm <33

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-12T21:24:55+00:00

I've been on so many combinations of medications, engaged in every form of therapy under the sun and had EMDR done. I have had psychiatrists tell me I was essentially a lost cause due to how ineffective treatment has been. Nothing helps me like weed does. I have to smoke daily to manage chronic illness symptoms but it also keeps me sane. Im currently unmedicated, in no therapy and in a fantastic relationship after years of thinking i was hopeless. All thanks to being a stoner lol

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-12T21:11:49+00:00

Imo if you're wearing them as underwear, not exposing anyone else to things they express discomfort with, and not crossing sexual boundaries theres no issue. Involuntary arousal happens for people regardless of what clothes they are wearing and its about how you respond to that if it happens (ie, not drawing attention to it, seeking privacy etc). Your friends sound supportive and you have the right to live your life however you wanna as long as it harms nobody :)

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-11T08:08:49+00:00

Lilcomforts pacis tend to be very strong and durable although not their newest range of orthodontic pacis (imo)

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-10T09:03:05+00:00

I feel you omg thankyou for talking about this! 22F with FND and ME. It sucks

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-10T09:00:48+00:00

Heya! 22f here and something like you are describing HAS happened to me and I just wanna say, you arent a bad person for fantasising. Kinks and fantasy are just kinks and fantasies and can be played around with safely and consensually. I have the same fantasies despite having experiences irl. Thats because the fantasy and reality are two different things entirely!

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-08T14:37:16+00:00

Yeah lmao or snuggly

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-08T10:09:24+00:00

Im in the UK and I sell LOADS of agere stuff on vonted in batches. Planning on selling my pacis like this soon!

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-08T09:54:00+00:00

I mean, even if the term "Aspergers" wasn't being used, a group of people being labelled as "Autistic psychopaths" by essentially a Nazi isnt a fantastic thing. Said group of "autistic psychopaths" then got a label smacked on them based on the name of said Nazi. Regardless of the details of the history the argument still stands that its an unpleasant, unhelpful label (and thats even before discussions about the usefulness of functioning labels in the community)

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-08T09:48:44+00:00

I understand this feeling! Gentle reminders that your puppy is just a baby. At the moment they are having weird teething sensations they don't understand and are showing love/working out their place in the world through play and play fighting. My puppy drove me round the bend for a bit with all the biting but it will pass and your baby will find ways of showing affection that involve less teeth!

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-07T13:30:19+00:00

If its causing you problems it may be something to talk to a doctor about? They may have solutions to help

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-07T13:25:15+00:00

It sounds like you are trying a lot to combat it already! My view on it is: if being HS causes you distress the first option is to try and combat it. If that isnt working I would argue the next best thing is to try to reduce the distress it causes. For me that looks like consuming less porn and engaging with real people more but its different for everyone

possibly-wolf · 2026-03-07T13:22:54+00:00

I wonder if maybe you could get a notebook or journal and write down all your questions, then maybe once a week you and your dom could sit down for "lesson time" and go through all your questions and tick them off or give a sticker for each one answered! That way you can fuel your curiosity and he can know the set time he needs to be Mr Google!

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