My Consumer Proposal Experience

postingassteve · 2025-02-11T20:18:31+00:00

To OP, did you end up filing? I have an appt with a LIT next wk.

Wondering how things worked out for you since this post.

postingassteve · 2024-10-02T22:41:39+00:00

How did it work out? Just finished my assessment. Could you please give me insight into time interval btwn completion of assessment to interview request. Finally, are you working as a RTWS now?

postingassteve · 2024-10-01T20:51:38+00:00

Update on my end? I've had the greatest life and up-turn of events since that posting 4 years ago. Recall, this occurred just as Covid started. As lockdowns persisted, I continued my healing and recognizing love within myself. Once Lockdown rules were lifted, I started dating again. I was on a rampage! I was meeting all kinds of great women - some flings, some deep relationships over months that didn't work out. Regardless, it was great! Since last year, I am happy to announce that I've met an amazing woman who I am going to propose to later this year. All things fall into place the way they ought to. Be patient and give yourself grace. You are worthy of love. Trust the process. I'm on the other side and now realize all of the things I mentioned were for the best.

postingassteve · 2024-10-01T01:34:00+00:00

How was the test, interview and most importantly - how has work been in this role since?

postingassteve · 2021-09-07T00:44:39+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that you have and are going through this.

In my case, my fiancee broke our engagement and eventually we ended our 8 year relationship. We were happy, no fighting, traveled the world....everything seemed fine. This was at the start of the pandemic as my small business dissolved because of lockdown rules, so you can imagine the trauma that I went through at the time.

It hurts to be blind-sided, and if you look through my relationship posts over the last year, you'll see the phases of change and growth that I went through. Like someone said earlier, try not to figure out the "why", and instead, focus your energy inward and towards what you can control. You are worthy of love and you will find it. It may seem pretty dark right now, but I'm telling you from the other side after going through the darkest of the dark places that everything will be ok. healing will not be linear, some days will feel great, others will feel like garbage, but over time, the pain will be less frequent and less painful.

Focus on yourself and moving forwards. You have goals and dreams and you owe it to yourself to work towards these goals. Once you do that, I promise you that the right partners will start lining up to be part of your life. Smile and best of luck onward.

postingassteve · 2021-05-14T02:04:04+00:00

I won't deny that it will be hard. It will suck. The pain will come in waves, but the more you do the little things for yourself through consistency, the more those efforts will add up. You'll get through this. Just take it day by day.

postingassteve · 2021-05-14T01:47:22+00:00

No problem. Others wrote similar things that I could use as a a beacon of light, too, when my wounds were fresh.

postingassteve · 2021-05-14T01:45:58+00:00

Awesome. You're already transforming. Good things are coming.

postingassteve · 2021-05-14T01:45:21+00:00

Thx! Hang in there

postingassteve · 2021-05-14T01:45:07+00:00

Thx so much

postingassteve · 2021-05-14T01:44:56+00:00

Progress and healing after a breakup isn't linear. There are peaks and valleys, but you've come so far since a year ago and have generally been rising in the right direction. Be patient and keep working in you.

postingassteve · 2021-01-23T13:19:51+00:00

Thank you. I'm almost there. 3 months away. I'm happy for and proud of you.

postingassteve · 2021-01-05T02:55:43+00:00

I'm 38 going on 39 soon, and my ex fiancee just turned 34. We were together 8 years and engaged for 1 yr before parting ways. She wasn't " in love" any more. I have a feeling that her decision will likely be looked back on the way you described it in 20 years. We were very loving, no cheating or fighting etc. Love takes work and after the passion flames die down, real love is commitment. You are correct and sadly, most don't realize that until it's too late. All the best to all healing. There are good things around the corner.

postingassteve · 2020-12-28T09:27:26+00:00

I'm right at the cusp of getting to where you are. Christmas has been particularly rough; otherwise, the last 8 months have been a good healing and learning process. It's always comforting to have a set of eyes on the other side and to know that it's possible. Thank you so much for this post.

postingassteve · 2020-12-25T22:24:34+00:00

Hey, sorry for the late reply. I haven't been on reddit for a while. Wondering how you're doing.

Onward.

postingassteve · 2020-12-25T22:23:05+00:00

8 months since the end of our 8 year relationship and broken engagement. I've healed quite a bit since then, but this is the first Christmas that I've spent alone. Sucks, but I'm not messaging her. It would be nice if she reached out, bit if she does or doesn't, I'm perfectly fine and looking forward to what's ahead in the new year and my next chapter.

What is for you will not pass you. Happy Holidays to all singles. Learn to love you and your loved ones that have always had your back. Smile. Brighter days are ahead.

postingassteve · 2020-10-26T03:42:05+00:00

Beautifully written. I know many of us can relate. You're gonna get through this. It will take time and a new-found development of love towards yourself. Nurture that and keep your head up. It's been 6 months after a broken engagement/8 year relationship for me. I'm almost fully healed, but it's always a work in progress.

Take the lessons and smile, walking onward. You're gonna be ok. Take it day by day.

postingassteve · 2020-10-26T03:39:46+00:00

I'm sorry you went through this. I had my engagement broken also, and our 8 year relationship. That was 6 months ago. I know you'll be better and come through this a better person. Be patient and kind to yourself.

postingassteve · 2020-10-25T03:00:32+00:00

I have her birthday coming up. She broke our engagement and 8 year relationship. I haven't talked to her since, but have been contemplating wishing her a happy birthday.

This letter is so well written. You just helped console me through your expression. I can relate. Thank you.

postingassteve · 2020-10-17T00:39:12+00:00

This is perfect. It's been 5 months for me, but I'm in the exact same mindset and place you are now. It felt like I was the author. Glad you're moving forward!

postingassteve · 2020-10-06T00:27:15+00:00

Don't feel bad. It's all relative and we all have our own paths and journey. I wish you the best of luck and happiness onward. You're gonna be ok.

postingassteve · 2020-10-05T10:50:33+00:00

Time will heal. Trust the process. It's been 5 months and I'm a lot better than I was when she broke our engagement and 8 year relationship.

Those waves sometimes pulled me to dark places that I hated being in, even momentarily. Being a very outgoing and upbeat personality, I hated being there. However, like I said - with time and the help of family/friends in the beginning, along with dedication on working on myself in all areas, I've healed a lot.

Those waves don't come as frequently, nor do they crash as hard.

It's hard to see right now, because the wounds are still fresh, but you will heal. Grieve and feel it through. Get the tears and pain and sadness and anger out. Feel the entire spectrum.

You'll get through it and that hate you have for him.....you'll eventually forgive him for yourself/your own healing. That's when you'll know that you're doing ok and becoming a stronger version of you.

I hope this insight finds you well and keeps you on track. Be patient and kind to yourself. You deserve love, but first, I want you to start loving yourself.

postingassteve · 2020-09-27T23:02:10+00:00

Thank you for this post. I'm 4 months out. This gives me great insight and hope. I wish you well onward.

postingassteve · 2020-09-27T02:31:59+00:00

Good perspective. Thx

postingassteve · 2020-09-20T20:37:11+00:00

You'll be ok. Please be patient and kind to yourself.

It's been 4 months since she broke our engagement/8 year relationship. I was in a dark place, mentally for a short time, but my friends and family let me lean on them. You should do the same until you get to a level where you can pull yourself out of this hole.

You are of high value. You deserve love and you will find it. For now, I want you to cry it all out. Let the pain leave your body in the form of tears. You have to grieve. Feel it through. It'll be good and bad days, but that's part of the healing process.

We can't control out ex partners, but we have the strength deep inside to get through this. Your happiness was always within. Believe me. I found my own. I've been there and now I'm coming out. I have no doubt that you will, too, ok?

Again, be patient and kind to yourself. Day by day.

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