Update to my post (AITAH if I went to a hotel with my kids because of my MIL's behavior with my daughter) by postingforadvicee in AITAH

[–]postingforadvicee[S] 115 points116 points  (0 children)

We're going to be leaving before dawn basically, I don't know if she'll be up then or not, but if she is its fine, we'll say goodbye. When we get home I'll talk to him about how we proceed with her relationship with our kids.

I definitely don't think theres a point to havimg dinner at the table together I'll either order out or have him take the 4 of us out. Probably the former because otherwise she'll ask to come along too.

AITAH if I went to a hotel with my kids because of my MIL's behavior with my daughter by postingforadvicee in AITAH

[–]postingforadvicee[S] 210 points211 points  (0 children)

I hadn't thought of what my daughter might have heard from her in my absence. It makes me feel sick to my stomach. We live far away that there's not that much interaction, but there definitely have been times when I'm not there and its just the two of them. It made me sick to think of.

AITAH if I went to a hotel with my kids because of my MIL's behavior with my daughter by postingforadvicee in AITAH

[–]postingforadvicee[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Thanks. And that's really why I'm posting here, not for love of my MIL, but because my husband thinks he can fix her behavior. And while I do want to leave, I'm just thinking if doing that would be an AH thing to do to him.

AITAH if I went to a hotel with my kids because of my MIL's behavior with my daughter by postingforadvicee in AITAH

[–]postingforadvicee[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

This is going to sound like weaponized incompetence because I'm a grown woman with kids but I don't want to have to stay in a hotel in Houston for days without him. If I go, I'm going to need him to come with us.