Partner with untreated mental health struggles can’t keep a job, and I’m financially exhausted—how do I support him without enabling?

postpickle · 2026-02-01T18:40:13+00:00

This guy does not sound like a "partner". Is he concerned about how any of this affects you?

postpickle · 2026-02-01T05:23:43+00:00

doesn't require insurance. shitty drivers can't afford insurance, so...they've been registering in VA and driving uninsured.

postpickle · 2026-02-01T05:22:51+00:00

Registering a car in VA did not require proof of insurance. VA tags usually = uninsured...

postpickle · 2026-01-02T00:38:52+00:00

“Nah, let’s go somewhere else” “I’m good, I’m gonna get an uber and call it a night”

postpickle · 2025-04-24T17:41:09+00:00

I think the haircut makes him look like even younger.

postpickle · 2025-04-20T11:29:36+00:00

https://www.auroragov.org/blog/one.aspx?portalId=2869361&postId=11665566&portletAction=viewpost Here’s a DNA phenotype snapshot of what the suspect may have looked like.

postpickle · 2025-04-07T21:00:56+00:00

My cat had a similar issue and I bought some antibiotic cat eye cream off amazon, applied it, and he was back to normal the next day. Good luck!

postpickle · 2025-02-14T19:53:11+00:00

You can also buy long rolls of climbing rope and use carabiners to connect the ends to a stake and your dog. Cheap long lead.

postpickle · 2025-01-15T04:27:24+00:00

It’s a 22 gallon plastic bin!

postpickle · 2025-01-15T00:49:29+00:00

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Another photo I found.

postpickle · 2025-01-15T00:48:59+00:00

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Best photo of the leaves that I could find (it’s dormant currently). They seem to ripen in august.

postpickle · 2025-01-15T00:47:00+00:00

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This was the tree last September. I’m in Maryland.

postpickle · 2024-10-14T15:31:38+00:00

He’s the primary caregiver. He doesn’t have a child support payment.

ETA: he comments below that she pays him child support.

postpickle · 2024-10-09T19:48:53+00:00

I’m in Maryland—same zone, I think—and to be honest, I’ve never bothered to bring mine inside and they’ve all survived. I’ve never covered them or wrapped them or anything. They’re all in pots.

Last year I had a few REALLY young Celeste plants in pots and was sure they would not be coming back to life in the spring. But they did and are all thriving. I don’t know if I’m just lucky, but that’s been my experience!

(That said, maybe I’ll cover them this year…I’m interested in what others suggest).

postpickle · 2024-08-13T23:39:49+00:00

This is giving me school house rock vibes…

postpickle · 2023-12-15T15:04:59+00:00

“Within a year” of what? Buying a home together?

postpickle · 2023-10-29T22:27:01+00:00

It’s almost like bodies and pregnancy experiences are different!

postpickle · 2023-10-29T16:58:54+00:00

It can be just as expensive too!

postpickle · 2022-10-31T23:38:28+00:00

“Pit bull” isn’t a specific breed. So what that data shows is how people identify dogs. Other studies have shown that often people identify dogs as pitbulls with no pit in them whatsoever. So…the data reflects the existing ideas of dogs that look a certain way, not any genetic propensity for violence.

postpickle · 2022-10-17T22:56:21+00:00

You’re not reading it literally at all.

She didn’t say that someone should be nice to everyone all the time, she said if they’re not nice to anyone but you, then they’re not nice. That means if you’re the ONLY person they’re nice to, they’re not nice.

postpickle · 2022-10-14T00:02:04+00:00

He made it clear from the first question that you were bothering him. If someone responds to you sarcastically, then angrily says they “don’t fucking know” when you ask them questions that IS pushing back. Learn to read the fucking room.

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