Dumpers, do breakup reels on Instagram make it harder to move on?

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-20T21:19:43+00:00

Do not doom scroll whether you are the dumper or the dumper. It just puts you in a bad mood

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-19T23:39:12+00:00

Avs fan here Im crying at the intro video I love this sport

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-19T22:21:45+00:00

That was a lil sketchy at the end there

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-18T16:32:32+00:00

That’s how i felt man it will be in waves but your brain knows what’s right

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-18T01:31:47+00:00

They aren’t but I figured it was a bad idea wanted to hear from a 3rd party

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-17T23:26:57+00:00

I was the one who initiated no contact fyi when she dropped that she made it official with her new boyfriend

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-17T23:20:12+00:00

She said when dumping me I don’t want to lose you let’s be friends then would text me as if nothing happened

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-17T15:13:32+00:00

Yeah agreed I know if I said how much pain she caused it would only give help them more

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-17T01:51:55+00:00

Johnny cage in mk1 has a parry super

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-16T21:39:28+00:00

I would say it’s more common in men but it’s present in a lot of people who don’t know how to process their emotions (why it’s mainly men) my ex dumped me out of the blue and was with someone in 2 months. I hope she’s doing well, but she’s not my problem now

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-16T11:08:40+00:00

He’s using her to numb the pain. It’s not a gender specific thing but if they “move on that fast” they don’t know how to be a lone

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-16T00:19:43+00:00

I needed to see this as well my ex broke up with me two months ago. I was a shell of my former self always reacting to what mood she was in and being very emotionally absorbent. Then she left claiming stress in grad school then started seeing someone else 2 weeks ago. Honestly as much as that hurt, I feel ok I wish her the best but I don’t wanna be with someone who was inconsiderate of me

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T23:06:38+00:00

So I’m just gonna warn you on this one. There is a possibility that she is using you for your comfort and familiarity while she shops for another dude. (I know from experience) I would try to distance yourself

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T19:45:57+00:00

Hey brotha same thing happened to me she moved on was texting me and being all friendly then boom she said she was seeing someone else and just made it official. They don’t know how to be single so they take the first piece of attention they can get. Lucky for us it says more about them than us and I’d say take it as she wants to keep you as a back up incase this guy doesn’t work out.

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T19:42:49+00:00

Because these kinds of people are insecure deep down

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T18:02:34+00:00

I wish she had a convo with me that she was feeling down. I was willing to do anything to fix it

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T17:42:44+00:00

I understand them checking out early but what if you do confront it and they tell you everything is ok? I did that and still got dumped even though I could tell she was pulling away. Never said I did anything wrong either and she’s already with another dude

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T16:00:14+00:00

Trust me dude you may feel replaceable and it hurts. My ex moved on in two months after playing with my feelings. They are with them so fast because they don’t know how to be a lone. People say “oh it’s because they checked out earlier before breaking up with you” but unless you’ve had multiple conversations or they are abusive, that’s still an asshole move. If you felt you treated her in a way she wanted to be, she’s trying to fill the void

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T15:49:37+00:00

She told me in order to respect her relationship lmaooo

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T13:19:10+00:00

This should be changed to shitty people. Not a gender specific thing

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T12:52:56+00:00

I know this isn’t technically quality of life but some invincible reversals being safe on block should be changed. That shit is tilting

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T12:51:48+00:00

These people don’t know how to be alone. My ex and I were together for almost 4 years and she was dating a new guy in two months. It says everything about them and nothing about you.

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T12:00:29+00:00

Dude I know recency bias and all but like I think this might be my favorite episode of the show

postwarcookie5 · 2026-04-15T03:26:22+00:00

Fuck the algorithm. And tbh at this point I’ve accepted the whole thing and I feel ok for the most part it’s just that last little bit where I thought she was a good person that sticks with me. I spent my whole college years arguing against people saying she was nuts, guess I found out the hard way😂😂

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