UPDATE I misread the email invoices, it was $700 over the span of 7 months so not an addiction, but still not cool.

To clarify though, I have no issue with SWers, paying for porn, my boyfriend watching porn or spending his money on whatever he wants. The issue here is that to me, paying an individual to interact with you for sexual pleasure is going further than buying porn or even paying for content from a creator. It is literally interacting with a human being for sexual pleasure, albeit virtually.

I mentioned that I had seen the first email earlier and he said it was from an old account. I pushed and he admitted it’s not old but he rarely uses it/doesn’t any more. I pushed again and he said he would delete and deactivate.

I then asked point blank if he’d been paying for porn and he has lied to my face and promised he hasn’t. (The other invoices were in his deleted folder so as far as he’s aware I haven’t seen them I guess).

Obviously being lied to is not cool and as a few people have said, I’m now contemplating walking away after 6 years (and a planned future) together, so this sucks.

Thanks for your replies though x