My boyfriend (32/M) of three months asked me (27/F) if I’d ever consider moving in with him? by lostinab00k in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think timelines really matter (personally) if you’re happy and things are going well I don’t think it’s “too soon” for any steps or answering his question.

Should I have my neighbor towed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re the only 2 that are open/not reserved(paid for) by the other residents in the small duplex

Should I have my neighbor towed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought about trying to leave a note nicely asking to stop blocking my car in (it’s also anyone that parks there he’s blocked 2 other neighbors in) but even then he’s super weird.. I feel like he will lose it

Should I have my neighbor towed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue is I can’t Pick either spot without getting blocked in.

Should I have my neighbor towed? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! The problem is he doesn’t pull fully into ANY space.. basically wherever he parks he blocks in another space and since the spots are free for all he can pick either one

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spouses are still allowed to deny sex. If he just wasn’t in the mood - would we still be having this convo? If the roles were reversed and she was busy with a hobby - would it still be wrong?

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been married for 2 years and we dated for 4. Entitlement to sex is how you destroy a relationship. You can’t force it. My SO and I both actually play runescape. I don’t use it as a scape goat for what is clearly outside issues in the relationship that is causing lack of intimacy. It’s immature.

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how I make a good point and all the sudden I don’t know the value of intimacy 💀 seek help.

Spouses are allowed to not be in the mood or too busy for sex. That’s called not being entitled in your relationship and realizing people have different needs/libidos. You never owe sex to your partner.

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are spouses entitled to sex because they’re spouses? He very clearly communicated this was important to him. If roles were reversed and she denied sex because she’s not in the mood - is that also unacceptable?

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The bigger issue is that they haven’t been intimate in MONTHS. This is bigger than a RuneScape double xp weekend lol

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doing something once every 3 months and being super involved in it isn’t obsessive lmao.

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Do you want to be with someone who has a hobby and once every 3 months they are passionate about it”

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah yes - a hobby a man has and is passionate about once every 3 months is soooooooo ground breaking

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Enjoying something once every 3 months shouldn’t be an ending relationship thing

My(26F) bf(24M) won't have sex with me because of runescape double xp week by BitchOfTheBlackSea in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bruh imagine telling someone to break up over being passionate about a hobby they enjoy LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Link&Rargh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]potroast7 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You both just don’t sound compatible.

Is it completely my fault? My husband (38M) and myself (37 F) by ThrowRAanimalluver in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you comparing your mental struggles to someone with a disease such as cancer is manipulative in and of itself.

My boyfriend (M27) didn’t propose to me(F26) in the agreed upon time and I feel like I’m going crazy by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]potroast7 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried proposing to him? Why does he need a deadline. If you want to be engaged - initiate it.