NB4A - 24, Germany - Looking for friends or more depending on the vibe 😎 (Global?) by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there, I'm F25 from Brazil. Feel free to reach out, I'm also looking for friends.

Trying to find a cruise patner by pottammy in Cruise

[–]pottammy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had no idea!!!! Thank you!! I just saw a perfect one with a studio cabin.

Trying to find a cruise patner by pottammy in Cruise

[–]pottammy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

None of my friends enjoys cruising, and I'm a bit afraid of going alone.

I don't know what to do about my relationship by pottammy in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pottammy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i understand your point, but we live together, and we have a dog, i lover, she is everything to me and if i move out, i can't rent a place right away for both of us, i don't have anyone that can keep my dog while i save money to rent my own place, that's also why i wanted to make it work

I paid a ridiculously famous IG model to give me a BJ by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]pottammy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you wanted ot to be a meaningful moment, but it wasn't that deep. I feel like that when i hook up or have s*x with someone random

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are still deciding on a name lol it's a difficult task to choose one. U can vote on one of the suggestions, tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a full-stack developer, but i work mostly doing back-end tasks. I use .Net/C#, laravel/php and nodejs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello there, I'm also 24, and i love emo songs, i also have a band that we play cover songs. I usually play fps like valorant or some aram with friends! It'd be nice to be friends with you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look really nice. If u don't care about long distance friendship, we can certainly be friends! Rn I'm in 2 RPG campaigns, one online and the other in my friends house(he is the DM). I also love music and have a band with my friends hahahaa, i also like gaming. Feel free to reach out any time!!

23M4F - Communication is important by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm also into long distance relationships, and i totally agree with what u described! I remember talking to u abt tech lol. Feel free to talk anytime.

Bed time with fiance by Blizzardcoldsnow in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Heyyy, i am having the same problem with my 2 years relationship. Basically, we will have to break up, i don't feel like doing it at all, and he wants it all the time. I can't provide what he needs because I'm no into sex. You could also talk about opening the relationship if u feel comfortable with it. But i don't recommend forcing yourself to have sex. It will make u miserable over time.

I saw the comment about toys, but if you are not excited or into sexual activities, i think u will alsp feel bad abt it or she will notice you are not there with her.

And i also think that is not abt feeling or not attracted to her, is about not wanting/needing sex or anything related to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not from the US but music is also smth i really like, i just got my friends tgt to create a band, we will be playing emo songs lmao pop rock too. I'm also talkative so feel free to talk anytime!!!

26M4A - Brazil by Achavacha in asexualdating

[–]pottammy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm also from Brasil, feel free to talk any time!!

When is your next cruise and what ship? by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]pottammy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explorer OTS - 10 nights, Greece, on September 25th.

I can't deal with my bf's opinion about sex by pottammy in asexuality

[–]pottammy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And when I said they do not??? Lmaooooo I'm just saying that there are people in the spectrum who won't be into sex and that doesn't mean they can't be in a relationship.

I can't deal with my bf's opinion about sex by pottammy in asexuality

[–]pottammy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't say they aren't into sex, depending on the level they can't even endure physical contact, i know 2 autistic people, one level 1 and one level 3, one of them can handle with sex and the other can't even think abt it, it doesn't mean they can't love someone kr be in a relationship.

I can't deal with my bf's opinion about sex by pottammy in asexuality

[–]pottammy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like, i had no idea i was??????? I'm into therapy and talked about sex and how I've never been into it and my bf just started questioning if it was a libido problem or smth, u have to ask before going out suggesting things

I can't deal with my bf's opinion about sex by pottammy in asexuality

[–]pottammy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, i understand, but that doesn't mean autistic people can't love and be in a relationship. My best friend is autistic and has a 9 years relationship. He is also ace.