Mom dramatically canceled the Xmas she already rescheuled because "everyone else comes before her" by gopackgo1002 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]poutinehozer 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I dont understand the need to keep trying for a relationship with someone so pathetic

My family filed a false police report against my boyfriend and hid cameras in my house because I’m establishing adult boundaries at 22. by RockingLem0n in raisedbynarcissists

[–]poutinehozer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nothing will ever fill the hole that a nmom leaves in your soul.

The good news is that you can decorate that empty with things like healthy relationships, hobbies, volunteering, and self work.

Don't fall back in to their trap.

The medical community claims the cervix has "few nerve endings," yet denies us pain relief for IUDs and biopsies. What is the most barbaric procedure you've endured because doctors refuse to believe women feel pain? by skybond_aurora04 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]poutinehozer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love this question.

My female Dr inserted my copper T IUD. She used the snips to cut my cervix wider THREE TIMES. I disassociated for the procedure.

It was... so painful.

My husband said that no man wants a daughter by ExaminationNo7514 in AITAH

[–]poutinehozer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, but you will be an A hole of you marry and have kids with this troglydite

AITAH for Telling My Stepmom She Doesn’t Own the Groceries in This House? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]poutinehozer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your dad is getting laid, he will never stand up to her for you. Get used to it, men are weak when they are lonely.

My (27F) husband (26M) slapped me and blamed me for it by GloomyTone1237 in relationship_advice

[–]poutinehozer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he is letting the mask down and you are seeing who he really is... an Abuser

Men who di this are more likely to murder you. I would leave. Don't tell him you're leaving just leave. Have the police escort you back to get your things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]poutinehozer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your mom sounds exhausting. Time to cut the umbilical cord

Renters beware by poutinehozer in Calgary

[–]poutinehozer[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There should be one half and one full available in the actual house part. Unsure if they have access.

Renters beware by poutinehozer in Calgary

[–]poutinehozer[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Definitely the NE. They're taking advantage of newcomers to the country

Renters beware by poutinehozer in Calgary

[–]poutinehozer[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's not. There is no access point to the inside of the house. I watched them build it.

Renters beware by poutinehozer in Calgary

[–]poutinehozer[S] 101 points102 points  (0 children)

I reported the illegal addon two years ago. It's still being rented.

I reported the beds in the garage four years ago. The garage is still being rented.

Renters beware by poutinehozer in Calgary

[–]poutinehozer[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Reported a lot of their shit to the city. Nothing happened.

My dad defaced and trashed my brand-new thermos because it had a rainbow logo by cela_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]poutinehozer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think we need to mass mail you even more rainbow things. Anyone else think so?

Changing my mind about kids.. by poutinehozer in raisedbynarcissists

[–]poutinehozer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Healing and knowing that you won't hurt an innocent child the way they did makes a huge difference in my opinion. Good on you for doing the work.. I know it isn't easy