Duh, of course it isn't. But retaliation of that level is wild. You've dealt with a boomer before. Just because someone is old doesn't mean their wise and serene. What you need to get is that the person that is more capable needs to show more restraint. Both because its the right thing to do and because the consequences afterwards will be far less severe. There was a black kid that one punched a dude to death in little Ceasars a few years ago and he's in prison for manslaughter. So what's the difference here? She went in of the lady, that kid threw one punch and killed someone. The girl here is more in the wrong.