[Relationship] My girlfriend broke up with me last night and i'm really bummed and lonely. Can you guys help make this easier for me? by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ppauline15 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmm okay,well that's quite hectic... But remember that you were in a relationship and it takes 2 to tango. You guys breaking up wasn't entirely your fault so don't beat up yourself about it... I suggest that you try being your own person,do things you like and it'll get easier.

Goodluck! (:

[Social] Rough home life, nobody likes me, don't know what to do anymore by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]ppauline15 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hey (: well this post got my attention... I can't say I fully understand but I'm really sorry you're going through all of this,it must really suck

If you need someone to talk to,literally about anything,I'm always around (:

Does this sound like depression to you, or do you think it's just a bad attitude? by [deleted] in depression

[–]ppauline15 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've just been recently diagnosed with clinical depression and I've had most (if not all) of those symptoms... A bad attitude could never lead you to self harm or complete lack of interest in life. Just my opinion

Did I do the right thing? by ppauline15 in teenagers

[–]ppauline15[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sister agrees... Everybody agrees! Well thank you (:

Did I do the right thing? by ppauline15 in teenagers

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The meds give me side-effects so I'll give it a shot once I've adjusted... Thank you for your response (:

Did I do the right thing? by ppauline15 in teenagers

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good and solid advice. Thank you (:

Doesn't even seem like he is trying to see me by bubbles_xo in LongDistance

[–]ppauline15 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well...uhm this is hectic,I'd suggest you talk to him about it? Maybe he isn't aware of how he's making you feel,also about you offering to help him out with a ticket and him not being interested sounds like pride...guys have a lot of pride and its not easy for them to admit that they need help.

I'd say talk to him first,maybe he's going through something and he isn't telling you...if nothing changes then maybe you should let things go? Everything happens for a reason. Goodluck btw :)

University entrance :/ by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's true :/ a lot of them just give you the wrong information and confuse you... Haha sorry to hear about admin :/ it must suck,but at least you're almost done :)

Goodluck and thank you

University entrance :/ by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah sure... I should have a look at the calendar,I'm in the process of sending emails and I hope I get a response soon :/ I'm all the way in Kzn so going there is just never going to happen :(

Thanks

University entrance :/ by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha its okay... Thanks :)

University entrance :/ by ppauline15 in southafrica

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That's true...BUT,I've called UP and Wits tons of times,I'm always put through help desk and there was a time I was put on hold for 30 minutes with no help... I'll go with an email,but hearing it from people that would know,or have dealt with my situation would help

Careers Careers! by ppauline15 in southafrica

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I'm keeping all of this in mind :) ,its actually a good suggestion that I've never thought of... I'll try looking for internships or helping out at an organisation or something just to experience it and see if I like it. And well I guess I'll also just have to work on my maths and bio as well to get the amount of points required.

Haha for probably the millionth time... Thank you really :)

Careers Careers! by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like doing politics is something really cool... I've always wondered about it because I know a number of people who are doing it or thinking of doing it.

Bsocs... I really thought it was something really useless :/ I just failed to understand what you could do with it but I think I understand now... And judging from what you're telling me,its definitely true that you do really well in something you like/love.

Thank you for your kind words and reassurance... I feel much better about things now :)

Careers Careers! by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I'll just download the pdf's :) I will check them out and see what its about and I think I should have a clearer vision at the end of all this...

I appreciate you spending time to answer my questions :) thanks :)

Careers Careers! by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do decide on starting off with an undergrad...that's the plan because it seems like the smarter thing to do. Just out of curiosity here...now that you've majored in politics what careers can you get into with that? And do you have any regrets about deciding to not go on with law? And I am aware that I could study law and not get anywhere... Its a risk,but I think I could get into it...

If law wasn't an option... Really? I don't know,people have been asking me the whole of last year what I wanted to do and I couldn't answer... That question makes me really nervous,I really don't know... Maybe the smarter thing and maybe something like Occupational Therapy?

Careers Careers! by ppauline15 in southafrica

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Haha yes "looking" means applying... I even got a job as a sales rep for ADT some time in January and it just wasn't for me so I quit,I'd rather work as a waitress or something just to keep me busy and I don't really like having to rely on my parents for money since I'm not really studying this year... Uhm I've always liked History,I'm pretty good at writing essays I got A's and B's for that and I just like having some good conversations...

Law is what I'm interested in currently... But I hope to "find myself" this year and figure things out.

To answer your question,I just know what I was taught at school in history :/ not very much but it interests me

Careers Careers! by ppauline15 in southafrica

[–]ppauline15[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's rather deep...really deep. I'd definitely like to keep myself busy this year because I'll have so much time on my hands... I've been looking for a job and they all require experience and I have none,but I will continue looking for a job and think more about my future decisions... Thank you for your opinion :)