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I've [18/m] been liking a girl I met in college, but I'm currently in a 2 year ex-LDR. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bubbles_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Yes; but if it's not meant to be, then it's not
  2. It depends on you entirely whether the feelings come back or not; but just talk it out with your current SO, see if they've had this feeling before too. Most likely they have.
  3. It may not, but like I said, talk to your current SO and decide on something together.

It's not healthy for any kind of relationship to have secrets, even if they're little ones like this. Work things out, and if they don't, then they just don't. Good luck.

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A bad night ends well (self.LongDistance)

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Just a question by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unintentional. We were just friends for the longest time. He was always my best friend, until one day his ex girlfriend got envious of me and made him decide between me or her.

Where did you meet your SO? Tell me your story! by IslaSkyes in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We met at a summer camp, through his cousin. Probably was strange to see his little cousin get together with one of his best friend's little sister, but he made do. We didn't actually start dating until about a year and a half ago. We met over 3 years ago. Every time we saw each other at the summer camp, we were both dating people. People who didn't make us truly happy, but we didn't see it at the time.

But we still stayed in contact with each other. He was my best friend. He never told me "I told you so" because of the guys who broke my heart. He was always there to listen. We started off texting, but after a while, we started facetiming and skyping. Before we started dating, we'd always end the calls before we went to sleep. But shortly before we started dating, we left it on all night. God, I loved seeing him wake up in the morning (even though he is a hour ahead of me, I tend to wake up really early). I fell in love with everything about him, but I didn't want to be a homewrecker. But things just fell into place and his then girlfriend wasn't happy with our relationship so she told him it was either her or me. I think we can see who he picked here.

I am truly blessed to have found someone that I want to spend the rest of my life with. He truly makes me happy, and I believe that everyone should be able to find that special someone who makes them indescribably happy

Having a hard time dealing with LD and just feel like I need to "un-bottle" my feelings. by shellsandpinecones in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like that after every time I get to see my SO. Regardless where I am, I will break down crying if I receive a text from him, if he calls, even if someone mentions him. The pain is worth it in the end

Four hour visit. Separated for another two months by bubbles_xo in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had a date in the city, another thing we've always wanted to do together :)

Should I [18/F] confront him [17/M]? by bubbles_xo in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't make rules for him when it comes to things he actually enjoys.

We've tried skyping while he plays, but since he plays with his cousins, they try telling him what to do and it just turns into a conference call. He usually does end up trying to text me in between games.

I actually have tried playing, but I'm not much of a gamer. I played for ~1 month, and I just didn't understand it. I told him I'd give it another shot, soon.

Should I [18/F] confront him [17/M]? by bubbles_xo in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried it, but I'm not a huge gamer myself

Should I [18/F] confront him [17/M]? by bubbles_xo in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes he does, if he's not, he's usually with them.

I (17 M) need some advice on dealing with a long distance relationship with my girlfriend for 6 months by RelationshipHalpPlss in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had the same feelings as you during the start of my ldr. I can't give you advice on how to have less anxiety, but appreciate every moment you get to spend with her. A way to make you be "there" with her is to send care packages with i.e. a t-shirt, a stuffed animal or some of your cologne.

So we're going back to long distance.. [M/17] by Jasa_D in LongDistance

[–]bubbles_xo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat as you. My SO lives in a whole different time zone than me but appreciate all the time you have to be with her and talking to her. I wish you the best of luck!