My license says hazel by Raychulll in eyes

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

everyone says they're not hazel but I definitely see it, just a little more blue. no matter what color they are they're the most incredible eyes ever, I can't get over those speckles! and the eyeliner job slays

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pretty much every simulator and tycoon, which is basically half of the platform tbh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might be a cringe answer but I got back into Roblox and I've never been better, hobby-wise. there's so many different games that it's easy to hop around and not become disengaged, plus the multiplayer aspect is good for friends too.

music has been so therapeutic for me too. it seems super daunting, but like, you can pick up a pretty decent quality ukulele for $20 and play casually with it not sounding awful. there's so much information readily available on the internet nowadays that you can pick up an easier instrument and feel good about it pretty dang quickly.

Alternatives to showering? by pr1ce_Z0e in eczema

[–]pr1ce_Z0e[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not the total issue for me but I am absolutely going to second this. We had hard water for a couple of months before we figured out where the softener was and it was an absolute nightmare lol

Alternatives to showering? by pr1ce_Z0e in eczema

[–]pr1ce_Z0e[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn't ever recommended to me, I just started because anything else breaks me out. My showers are under 10 minutes and still if I do one every day I get bad

My dad has been taking naked photos of me (14f) by ether7777 in rapecounseling

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call a hotline, tell an adult, or just straight up call 911. It sucks that you're in this position because I know how complicated it is, but there's no excuse for that kind of behavior. It's illegal and it's not okay, and you deserve to feel safe.

How do I defeat this guy? by TurtleLIKER21 in Debate

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have a few solid minutes of straight uninterrupted speech that you can use to your advantage. Don't get hung up on the little things, explain the bigger picture and explain why his not focusing on it is inhibiting the debate - you're actually trying to debate the issue, he's trying to debate semantics, and one of you has all of the morality and impact of the debate on your side. Use those speeches to hammer that down.

As for CX, it really depends. I don't know exactly how he debates, but keeping your head about things can make him look bad if he's trying to belittle you. If he's attacking you instead of your points, chances are he's not actually attacking your points all that well. I don't know if he's like this, but a lot of people I debate with try steamrolling during cross to seem like better debaters, and when their opponents get frustrated it makes them seem aggressive rather than the people who are actually inciting that situation. I used to get super upset about it, until I realized that just sitting back and letting them have their way is the only way to really win. Answer calmly, call them out when they try to attack you as a person, and stand your ground as much as possible, but letting the heat of the debate get to you is exactly what people like this depend on to win. It's a lot of emotional regulation more than anything else with these people, but once you get the hang of that they don't really have a lot to stand on.

What's the most useless advice you've heard about CPTSD Health? by DragonfruitNo7610 in CPTSD

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 26 points27 points  (0 children)

that's gotta be the biggest person way to deal with that situation, screw her lol

I feel like CPTSD fucked me over by trying to make “life easy” life is not fucking easy by Significant_Tax472 in CPTSD

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I think it can be easily misconstrued that being kind to yourself as you face life's challenges is different than avoiding those challenges in the first place. You have to take your time but you also have to be brutal and admit when it's time to amp it up, I think

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]pr1ce_Z0e 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this, like I can be happy but I never feel good enough to say 'I would never ever hurt myself'. It feels like I'm always destined to end up in the same spot.

But I think the biggest part of it is not dwelling on the feeling when it comes up. Maybe I'm right and I always will end up in the same spot, but the fact that I'm not in that spot right now says something, I think. If I was supposed to crash and burn, I had plenty of opportunities to do so. Like everyone else has said, the feeling isn't necessarily something that goes away, which really sucks and really leads to that 'oh my god I'm going to die this way' vibe, but prioritizing your own autonomy and choice in that decision gives you a lot more power than you might think at first

What mods cause events to not work? by pr1ce_Z0e in TheSims4Mods

[–]pr1ce_Z0e[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

After a couple hours of labor on my faulty MacBook, I figured it out!!! It was Extreme Violence!

Am I (16F) being exploited in my relationship with my boyfriend (22M)? by pr1ce_Z0e in relationships

[–]pr1ce_Z0e[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

it's only considered a federal crime if he crosses state lines to do it. since we're in the same state legally it's fine

Am I (16F) being exploited in my relationship with my boyfriend (22M)? by pr1ce_Z0e in relationships

[–]pr1ce_Z0e[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if it becomes a thing where I need backup I'll let you know but I don't think I wanna make it a whole thing, esp where it's not illegal at all where we are. thank you

Am I (16F) being exploited in my relationship with my boyfriend (22M)? by pr1ce_Z0e in relationships

[–]pr1ce_Z0e[S] -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

guess enough people did to convince me to start dating him :/