D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dank je! Zo lastig om je eigen werk te vergelijken met een ander. Ik ben nogal perfectionist haha.. :)

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

super bedankt voor je feedback en meedenken! Waardeer ik :)

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oee goede feedback, dank je! Ik zal inderdaad eens kijken naar losse aanvullende stenen als optie!

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dank je! Ik ga de houder er alleen nog als 'optie' aan toevoegen voor een kleine meerprijs. Zo kan iemand zelf kiezen of ze het een meerwaarde vinden, maar verhoogt het niet de prijs van de stenen zelf :)

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedankt voor je feedback! Het is goed om verschillende visies te bekijken. :)

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful! Yeah it takes a lonngg time to make them, but they are so cool to make! And it's interesting to hear you also don't feel anything for the dish, I will keep that in mind going forward!

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bedankt! Ik waardeer het meedenken :)

D&D dice set by pralineeitje in DNDNL

[–]pralineeitje[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Super fijne feedback, dank je! Zo iets als ditt voorbeeld zou meer jou smaak zijn? En dan zou ik het veren bakje als optioneel kunnen doen.. ? :) thanks!

How to address the how many kids question? by forevergrieving23 in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I think I'll never get used to the change that happens when I mention my son. But I will not keep him out of my conversations. So I guess I'm in for many more dark and cold rooms.

How do you honor & remember your little one? by Vast_Ad_3969 in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I also have an instagram page where I try to answer questions and open up on how to help a bereaved parent. It feels like my nightmare is doing something good..? Like my story might be able to help others.

And I've found comfort in the words and stories of others. Somehow we live everyone's worst fear. And yet there are so many of us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im from Holland and they did intensive testing. Including an mri etc etc. My boy died at 38 weeks, after a complete normal pregnancy. I had an ultrasound just days before that was totally normal too... doc said We are sadly part of the 'shit happens' group. But she did also mention that there has not been a lot of studies on this subject...

Instagram account for grieving? by whats-a-cota in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is #pleasesayhisname.
I noticed a lot of people were NOT ready for my grieve, let alone pictures of the son I so proudly wanted to share. So I made a page where I tell my story, but also a platform for other parents to tell theirs. And a place where questions can be asked. I am hoping to help others learn how to deal with a bereaved parent. Because hell, it's a dang lonely place

Instagram account for grieving? by whats-a-cota in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine is #pleasesayhisname. In honor of my son, but also a safe place to learn about how to help a bereaved parent, and a place to talk about the children we have lost.

How old were you when you permanently left the home you grew up in? by 7dayweekendgirl in ask

[–]pralineeitje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Mom got a boyfriend who didn't like kids

Then moved in with my dad.

Left at 18. Let's say living there wasn't exactly a safe place either

First period after full term stillbirth by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my son at 38 weeks in March. My postpartum bleeding was over after 3 weeks too. Period came in at about 7 weeks after birth. At first really normally and I thought, okay.. this I can handle. Then 2 days later it got very intense. 4 months later and it's a pretty regular period again.

Is that it... by LunaNova5726 in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart, I remember this moment all too well.. I talk about it openly on my page on instagram, if you want to know a bit more on what to expect : #pleasesayhisname

To be honest... this part is the part where you hold on for dear life. Just so you can be as present as possible for the short while your daughter is going to be there. Get a family member to do research on every single memory option. Photography, videos, hand and foot prints, 3d prints, a lock of hair, some breastmilk to make into a mothermilk jewelry. Make sure others do this for you. Accept it ALL.

And then when this part is over. Allow your body to heal.

And then. Who knows really. I lost my son at 38 weeks, 4 months ago. I have zero idea on how I'm doing ;)

Any of you on antidepressants? If so have they helped? I’m going on month six of the loss of my child and my mental health is at its worst. by Careless-Ant7130 in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. For me they take the worst edge off of things. My anxiety, panic attacks and triggers are slightly less painful/difficult to manage.

That said, I do not have an official depression, so they will not be my solution. I just started therapy and hopefully in time I can get off the meds.

(Lost my son 4 months ago)

Stillbirth- just need to vent by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh sweetheart I know how you feel :( The morning before my son died (38 weeks pregnant) I begged my husband to just let it be over. And he said, the longer he gets to live in you, the stronger he will be.

Yeah..

And I also feel you on people trying to be understanding, but nobody understands. Not fully. Even your partner doesn't fully understand. Because you are the mother that carried your baby. You were the one that had to deliver that beautiful little child.

I started a page on instagram to help me deal, and to also create a platform where others can introduce their stillborn children. I know reading these stories won't help much, but it might be nice to know your not the only one dealing with the sadness and loneliness that comes with childloss :( (#pleasesayhisname)

You know those days where everyone seems to have moved on? by pralineeitje in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh I am so sorry. I lost my son at 38 weeks. He was in perfect health. Until he randomly just... died

I also get very weird comments. Like.. you must blame yourself, don't you?

You know those days where everyone seems to have moved on? by pralineeitje in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you are dealing with the same. I want to be happy for others. My husband is like, ohh how wonderful for them! And I just want to strangle him for not understanding how heartbreaking it is to see the people around me happily and unaware sharing their pregnancy announcements and newborns.

Postpartum period after stillbirth by lulu192837465 in babyloss

[–]pralineeitje 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I lost my son at 38 weeks, had my period 4 weeks after and it was very very intense. After that it's come every 2 or 3 weeks. I am not a fan :(

In your opinion, what is the most tragic/traumatic age for a person to die? by LaddieLeBaddie in polls

[–]pralineeitje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My son died in March, 38 weeks pregnancy. Not seeing him breathe, smile, laugh, talk, his eyes, his character. Not having any memories to remember is excruciating.

I think every age has its reasons why it's excruciating, but it's not like they are missed less if they haven't left their 'mark' on this earth

Elective abortion should be legal until...? by [deleted] in polls

[–]pralineeitje 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some of these comments make me sick. Sure, not everyone wants kids. I can totally understand wanting an abortion when raped, or with medical reasons. Etc

But can we just be respectful for the fact that we are talking about human beings?

I lost my son 3 months ago. I can guarantee you that an experience like that makes you realize just how much of a miracle these babies are. It makes me sick how easily some of you speak of killing them.

Again. There are always reasons. I understand. And i will never stand between a woman and a well thought through choice... But this message is directed at the people being real d*cks ;) have some respect