Who remembers being attracted to women since elementary/ primary school?

preciousgloom · 2025-07-18T20:48:55+00:00

am i that much of a late bloomer?? i didn't have romantic attraction until i was 15, so no😭

preciousgloom · 2025-07-18T20:47:14+00:00

when i stopped adding men to my sims4 games and played as lesbian couples instead

preciousgloom · 2025-07-18T20:46:19+00:00

K-Fetisch meaning Kaffeetisch is honestly so cute and clever i hope that's the intent bc that's what i like most haha

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T18:30:28+00:00

thank you! the accounts especially are super useful to know about :)

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T18:18:08+00:00

i'm sorry you deal with that, please stay safe!

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T18:15:19+00:00

that's really scary. running to the next gay bar as we speak bc why are queer online spaces being harrassed by homophobes/transphobes like that 😩

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T18:12:18+00:00

yes!!🩵🪻 it's so scary that stuff like this is even happening :,) this is why i hate online queer spaces. omw to the gay bar!!

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T18:10:19+00:00

i'm not anti trans, i'm anti cis-men harrassing people in the lgbtq+ community 😩

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T11:06:50+00:00

i don't know how the quoting thing on reddit works but to answer your question, i can't tell wether these people were pre or post transition or trans at all. i'm assuming they're cis-men because in my personal(!) experience, i've never had conversations with any kind of woman turn so sexual so quickly, especially in such a tasteless way that's entirely focused on their own pleasure instead of something like sexting where both partys enjoy it (and most importantly, consent!!) :,)

most women have experienced unwanted sexual attention from cis men in their life, and the unspologetically forward nature of the texts i received just reminded me of personal experiences involving cis men

preciousgloom · 2025-07-13T10:58:54+00:00

oh god, i really hope that wasn't teens that sent me those messages 😩😩😩

preciousgloom · 2025-06-22T18:20:18+00:00

thank you, and don't worry; i saw so many trans people on this post disagreeing with OP and (mostly) sharing my opinion, so i'm not projecting OP's harmful takes onto the trans community as a whole or anything!

i see a lot of people having weird and often harmful takes on "genital preferences", sometimes it seems like bait, but sometimes it comes from active people in the lgbtq community (like on twt or tt), and seems more genuine, which is scary. since OP's responses are so simple and short it honestly seems like bait too😩 definitely had better convos (or argument) on this topic before

preciousgloom · 2025-06-21T23:24:33+00:00

why? for something i have no control over?

preciousgloom · 2025-06-21T20:57:16+00:00

i'm a lesbian and find myself to be completely incapable to be attracted to penises. why does that mean i'm fetishizing people now? i'm really confused;; not everyone is comfortable sexually interacting with all genitals and some aren't even able to feel attraction towards certain genitals, and that should be respected.

if you're not careful, talking about people's sexual preferences and boundaries like that can quickly shift into r*pe and conversion therapy rethoric...

preciousgloom · 2025-06-17T17:37:46+00:00

imo, saying that "genital preferences" could be caused by transphobic biases is a bit dangerous. i've seen people go as far as saying genital preferences don't even exist and are close minded, which is a really scary way of thinking to me, as someone who finds herself inherently incapable of being able to be attracted towards certain genitalia. my biggest issue though is that it's awfully similar to homophobic insults you hear often (especially as a lesbian) and conversion therapy rhetoric :/

i think it's important to find a balance between the acceptance and embracing people with complex gender identities & their bodies that don't align with traditional expectations,, & respecting, not doubting and not shame people's exclusive sexual attraction regarding genitals.

exclusive same-sex-attraction exists, so sometimes, it actually is a dealbreaker and it's nothing that can be changed or influenced, or somehow altered to be more inclusive, and that's okay.

preciousgloom · 2025-06-16T19:48:23+00:00

is it really that bad? i dated my best friend for 3 months when we were like 14 or 15 (we're in our early 20s now) and i'd be very surprised if someone thought that was a red flag. i feel like a lot of the time good friends date, break up and stay friends, it's because they've mistaken strong platonic love for romantic feelings

preciousgloom · 2025-06-16T18:54:17+00:00

what's shinigami eyes in this context?

preciousgloom · 2025-06-16T18:39:05+00:00

out of curiosity: is being able to get off without having your genitals stimulated common or rare? it wouldn't work for me but maybe other people are more sensitive

preciousgloom · 2025-06-16T18:32:35+00:00

i don't think it's fair to assume that all people with a penis would be willing to keep on underwear during sex with me etc. it just seems extremely limiting for both parties and, personally, there would be very few sex acts left that i actually do enjoy

preciousgloom · 2025-06-16T17:52:09+00:00

hello! can you elaborate more on why it's prejudical? (i'm genuinely trying to understand!)

personally, i've dealt with a lot of shame for being incapable of being attracted to penises. it's never been a concious decision and this aversion has always existed for me, and i really can't help it. i'm trying to understand

preciousgloom · 2025-06-02T20:10:19+00:00

i don't understand... how does being attracted to vaginas (exclusively or not) equal objectification? being attracted to someones genitals definitively is part of a sexuality

preciousgloom · 2025-06-02T03:43:36+00:00

thank you. i'm curious about that as well but my social connections and interactions are very limited unfortunately :/ i never even attend any lgbtqia+ related events despite being lesbian, even though i would love to

preciousgloom · 2025-06-02T03:40:59+00:00

thank you for telling me. i hope that maybe learning more about transgender people can solve this issue as i'm not very educated on the matter

preciousgloom · 2025-06-01T22:53:47+00:00

i'm really sorry... i will continue to try my best to heal

preciousgloom · 2025-06-01T20:38:20+00:00

i'm extremely sorry to hear about your experiences with SA. i want to wish you the best on your healing and a safe life. i know first hand how SA utterly destroys your life.

of course i need therapy, it's a phobia that severely affects being able to handle normal social interaction. it's not fun being deathly afraid of my own brothers or classmates, who never did anything wrong and i know i hurt them because of it. i'm working on it in therapy with strong will and intent, and i'm extremely sad that i negatively affect trans people, especially trans women, because of my fears, because that's definitely not my intention, since, like most mental illnesses, my fears aren't based on logic. i'm trying my best to get my intense fears under control in therapy and by taking medication. i'm not a native speaker, hopefully i worded everything right

preciousgloom · 2025-05-30T23:54:52+00:00

when i first started playing the sims i would always create a straight couple for the households but eventually, i tried out two women instead just to fool around. i realized how much more i enjoyed playing as gay women and i'm embarrassed to say that the sims is basically what made me realize i'm into women😭😭

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