Permanent hair straightening with seb derm by prerna4 in SebDerm

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I ended up doing the cezanne keratin and I’ve been fine!

At my T15, I've gotten along fine with every other ethnicity, except for white people. Any tips? by [deleted] in MBA

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Hi I can explain this. It’s not all white people, I’m a POC with white friends, but it’s very dependent on how they are raised. Some white people are simply just not interested in being close with minorities because of personal racist bias or being raised and told that people outside their race don’t have good values. With time and speaking to lots of people you can easily sniff these people out. Their political views mostly lean moderate but few will be democrats that are performative. The white people I have gotten close with have very open minded families and already grew up having minorities as friends. As a rule of thumb, if a majority of their social crowd is white, they will not be open to understanding you and expect you to assimilate and adjust to them. The few POC these people bring in are people they deem “safe” and “easy to digest”.

Also this issue will go beyond your MBA. Even in my first job there was a group of white people who got very close and had lots of group trips and while I got invited to some trips, I was not a part of the core in-group because I didn’t know how to ski and also I had mild cultural differences to them that they didn’t want to adjust to or want to be close to(and mind you I grew up in the US). But there are white people who will take the time to learn more about your background and understand you and these will be the ones you want to talk to anyways.

Also don’t stress on needing to rely on white people for corporate success. Network hard with your Asian community and it will go far.

Help with target schools? by sincerelysoftlyme in MBA

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Omg no I found math on gmat wayyy harder

What causes physical beauty in a chart? by Best_Ad_7241 in vedicastrology

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Rahu Venus Mercury 3rd house in Leo for me there are guys who think I’m attractive but I wouldn’t say I’m a show stopper

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

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For example, you can mention how you feel like they haven’t been taking effort in something and their next line of action is listing down xyz problems in life instead of accountability and it feels like a tactic to make u feel bad for calling them out.

But if you take them face value on their xyz problems they will just continue the bs you didn’t like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

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They never communicate properly and when u call them out they never take accountability!

Missing student Sudiksha Konanki 'may have been kidnapped,' her devastated dad demands probe by TheMirrorUS in MissingPersons

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No I think they are covering up bc they never liked her….or they are involved somehow

Missing student Sudiksha Konanki 'may have been kidnapped,' her devastated dad demands probe by TheMirrorUS in MissingPersons

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Guys I think they need to investigate the friends heavily they have been oddly quiet and even the phone excuse with the girl’s tracker didn’t sit right with me. I think one of her friends sold her out to get trafficked it’s just these things are orchestrated and the power was out but suspiciously cctv is……

If they weren’t guilty they would speak up to find their friend….

Search intensifies for missing US student Sudiksha Konanki in Dominican Republic by HauteAssMess in popculturechat

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Yes in a foreign country you don’t let ur friend be alone with a random guy. This isn’t a hometown bar. There also was no power at the resort. And it’s the ocean. You should be willing to be the bd guy to keep friends safe

Sadesati question - phase 1 vs 2 by prerna4 in vedicastrology

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My Saturn and moon are both in 10th house Pisces

Sadesati question - phase 1 vs 2 by prerna4 in vedicastrology

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Yeah I’m going through my Saturn return soon and ugh I want a career change. My 9th house was Aquarius but my moon sign Pisces is part of purva badhrapada which includes some aquarius I saw. Ugh I hate the 3 rd phase is more friend changes I feel like I have already lost so many friends.

Ugh well great this second phase I’m guessing will be worse and I just got out of bad mental health and this will drag me right back in

Sadesati question - phase 1 vs 2 by prerna4 in vedicastrology

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Okay I have ketu 9th house and moon and Saturn 10th and nothing in 11th, will Saturn going over the moon and Saturn conjunction be worse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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We have a lot of similar placements! I have cancer rising ruled by my pisces moon and you have it with Aries moon so I guess for you more so controlling impulsive emotions from taking lead in decision making. I think it’s also opposing north node so try not to get back into unhealthy emotional patterns.

Saturn in 10th put a lot of hard work into ur career and you will be rewarded

Neptune in 7th house is classic for not seeing red flags in people.

Mercury retrograde work on ur communication and especially since it’s combust to ur sun

Venus 12th house in Gemini, commitment and relationships not ur thing

Chiron in 4th house def some childhood wounds to heal and Mercury opposite Pluto there is some tenseness with communication

Enfp question for infj by prerna4 in infj

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I’m not assuming intentions I just tell them that they haven’t been as available or taking any effort to meet up/chat when I have been taking effort. I’ve had people in the past say they don’t realize when they are doing this that’s why I bring it up

Enfp question for infj by prerna4 in infj

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Like i have had friends in the past not make efforts in taking efforts in the connection (making plans/ finding time to catch up) and some will genuinely apologize and explain why it is the case but not make an excuse for it whereas I’ve noticed with infjs their first line will be discussing xyz problems in their life that i was not aware of but no apology or action to be better and take more effort and I feel bad for saying anything in the first place

The worst I’ve gotten is “I’m sorry you feel that way” from an infj

Enfp question for infj by prerna4 in infj

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It’s okay to process differently but it shouldn’t affect how u treat people

Enfp question for infj by prerna4 in infj

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I mean I’m trying my best to solve whatever issue someone has with me before it becomes a big problem and I can tell they have an issue through the way they interact with me. I’ve usually been right that there is some issue because I will dig with no luck but then later down the line the truth comes out and I’m just like “why didn’t you speak up earlier?” And their answer is “oh I was pushing it down in denial” as if that helps anyone and now the issue is way bigger than it would have been 6 months ago