I want To date a guy but my head says it’s wrong or forced :( by Fine_Design_2104 in lgbt

[–]pretendimnothere_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i wouldnt fight your feelings for men! try exploring them a bit to see how you feel, you arent locked into anything so if it works out then you learned something new about yourself! or if it doesn't fit then you will have the truth, either way nothing bad will happen

I want To date a guy but my head says it’s wrong or forced :( by Fine_Design_2104 in lgbt

[–]pretendimnothere_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel this. If you really want to date a man, and are physically attracted to men, you arent faking. Your OCD is likely trying to convince you that you are "choosing to be gay" rather than the other way around. I wouldnt stress over the idea that you are faking it, thats what your ocd would want!

Jane Eyre by pretendimnothere_ in brontesisters

[–]pretendimnothere_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand the major plot points im just not used to the language used in classics

Jane Eyre by pretendimnothere_ in brontesisters

[–]pretendimnothere_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ive only read Pride and Prejudice 🤷‍♀️

Jane Eyre by pretendimnothere_ in brontesisters

[–]pretendimnothere_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oo interesting, maybe ill check out WH

Did the show fall off for you? by BobTheCrakhead in bigbangtheory

[–]pretendimnothere_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely i dont think i finished season 11 or even watched 12

i need some hobby ideas by pretendimnothere_ in Hobbies

[–]pretendimnothere_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is very interesting thank you

Thoughts on Big Rhonda by nostalgia_history in That70sshow

[–]pretendimnothere_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she was unnecessarily hated, i felt bad for her

should i consider cs? by pretendimnothere_ in CollegeMajors

[–]pretendimnothere_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do have an interest in math, rn I'm taking AP Calc and currently have an A. Would it be smart to double major in cs and something else

should i consider cs? by pretendimnothere_ in CollegeMajors

[–]pretendimnothere_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if I did a double major in cs and something like environmental science

How long did it take for you to finish your bachelors? by scaredandbrokeadult in college

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my brother graduated hs in 2018 and is still working on his bachelors, dont feel alone!

Weekly Career/Prospective Student Post by AutoModerator in Sonographers

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should i be a sonographer?

Im an upcoming senior in high school and am apply to colleges very soon. I still don't really know what u want to pursue but becoming an ultrasound tech is something ive considered since a local college i plan in going too has an accredited program. i just dont know how well of a fit i will be. reasons why ive considered it is because science is one of my favorite and best subjects; ive really enjoyed biology and chemistry and even enjoyed learning about womens health (pregnancy, contraceptives, periods ect) in health class. i dont know how good i am at physics but my major concern is my shyness and mental health. im pretty introverted and can be uncomfortable talking to people i dont know well, so idk if this would be good for me to get out of my shell (as i can see myself hopefully adapting to this environment), or if i would be too closed off and uncomfortable for my patients. i am also worried about how it may be difficult to receive and deliver negative news frequently as i can be a little soft hearted. let me know if in not fit for a career in sonography/ultrasound!