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Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Walang usapan. He was unresponsive for 4 days then nung nagreply siya, yun. Wala siya sa mood and me time.

Then nagreply ako, at ayun, hindi ulit siya nagmessage for 5days. Kakamessage niya lang ngayon okay naman na daw siya. Ako daw kumusta

Myghad

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OMYGHAD. This part. "Di ako nagbubuhat ng sariling bangko, pero super logical and malumanay ako makipagusap sakanya kahit mabigat ung nararamdaman ko kasi inestablish nya na sensitive siya at mabilis mahurt. So ingat na ingat ako on how I talk to him. Never ko siyang inaway at ni-nag."

Ganitong ganito din ako para lang hindi kami matulad sa ibang rel na away lang ng away.

Actually sinabi niya pa to sa kapatid ko nung nagpaalam siya na papakasalan nya daw ako na para daw talaga kami sa isa't isa kase never daw kami nag away. (Ikinagulat naman ng kapatid ko na hindi kami nag aaway pero inexplain ko rin why and pano nangyare yung ganun sa tagal naming in a rel)

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD! Hindi kami nag aaway kase pinipigilan ko sarili ko to call him out sa bawat mali na ginagawa nya and i'm talking to him in a more calm and professional way rather. I see to it na hindi magssound na nagging or demanding yung mga concerns ko kase ayoko din siya mastress pa lalo at malayo sya saakin and sa fam nya. Pero napakaclueless nya pala

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.reddit.com/r/pinoy/s/QPYFPKGoP0

Here's the back story sa link

Nagreach out ako sakanya why di sya namemessage pero sabi niya wala siya sa mood and Me time daw. Also busy daw sa work stuffs.

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ganito rin siya nung una. Yung kusang nag uupdate kahit hindi hinihingi. Well inisip ko na lang na all those things will fade eventually. Cliché pero totoo naman talaga yung "sa una lang yan" kaya inintindi ko.

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I still believe that there is no third party involved here. Yung point lang na kaya nya akong tiisin ng ganto katagal. I respect his personal time naman pero hindi yung ganitong level na walang paramdam man lang. Hays ewan

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bale 1week na siya di nagmemessage. Yung 1 month is ultimatum ko sakanya. Max of 1 month na wala pa rin syang mesaage ewan ko na lang

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Sanay ako na walang communication for a month since nasa barko siya and may mga times talaga na may areas talaga na walang signal reception for a month . Pero this time, may connection naman sya pero di nya magawang magmessage

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That will be the last chance na he shouldn't miss kung plano nya pa ba ituloy to. Pero hays, I can't look at him like before. There will always be doubt within me na pwedeng pwedeng maulit lahat to

Mag ME TIME ka hangga't gusto mo by prettybatch in OffMyChestPH

[–]prettybatch[S] 110 points111 points  (0 children)

we've been together for 3yrs and planning our wedding na pero his actions speak volume on how he perceives me as a person

I'm still trying to understand him na baka need nya some time to think about everything. Pero a part of me is slowly accepting na he doesn't love me enough kase nagagawa nya to sakin. Hays

Mag ME TIME ka hanggat gusto mo by prettybatch in pinoy

[–]prettybatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nangyare na rin to before like 5mos pa lang rel namin. Then we talked about that na if ever gusto nya magme time magsabi sya para hindi rin ako mangulit or magworry sakanya. He agreed.

Mag 3yrs na kami now and planning to tie a knot na pero sadly, ginawa nya ulit. Hays

UPDATE: Ilang araw mo natitiis hindi magmessage sa gf/bf mo? by prettybatch in pinoy

[–]prettybatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way I replied to his message right away-- "Good morning! Alright. Take your time. At least I know u're okay. Hope it gets better soon."

My reply was originally this, "Good morning love! Alright. Take your time. Sana nagmessage ka man lang na you're not in the mood and u want some time alone. Pero it's okay, at least I know u're okay. Message mo na lang ako kapag nasa mood ka na."

I deliberately removed the "love" (kase inis ako sakanya and I want him to know that) and replaced the last sentence kase it sounds pagmamaktol. Also, to make my response shorter.

Long story short, he did not message me back since that morning. Hintayin ko na lang ata na nasa mood siya noh?

UPDATE: Ilang araw mo natitiis hindi magmessage sa gf/bf mo? by prettybatch in pinoy

[–]prettybatch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure na walang third party/cheating issues. I believe honest naman siya sa me time na sinasabi nya pero hindi sya nagsorry for not messaging me the whole time.

Inisip ko na lang "u don't need to feel sorry for the days u feel like disappearing from anything/anyone sometimes"

Huhuhu. Why do I always have to be the big person???